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One of the worst forms of metal abuse is the kind we inflict upon ourselves! I was the MASTER at making my self feel like crap. The weird thing is I had zero idea that it was self-inflected…which is why I’m sharing this story with you today, as a mentor pointed it out to me several years ago, and it hit me between the eyes. Comparison is form of self-sabotage and self-abuse. The scary reality is that is can be addictive. The definition of addiction is you are doing something repeatedly that is robbing you of your health, mental wellbeing, spirituality, and/or livelihood, yet you continue to do it anyway. Going online and ending up in the Comparasionitis spin cycle and sink hole, and not doing anything to stop it, is a HUGE RED FLAG. The same holds true for doing this in person….you are at a networking event or at the gym, you find yourself comparing and making yourself feel less than, and yet you do nothing to stop this “habit.” THIS WAS ME. I even would know that I needed to get off social media, it wasn’t m

How to align your energy with your 2020 goals… The most important and priceless resource you have is your energy. As I always say, personalities can be faked, but energy cannot. If your energy is out of alignment with your 2020 goals, they will not manifest into reality no matter how hard you work at it or how much money you throw at it. Believe me, Tiffany 1.0 tried it doesn’t work. Here’s how you know if your energy is out of alignment with your vision: if your body are mind are tense, stressed, or anxious anytime you think, speak, or take action towards your goal…you my friend need an energy adjustment. Our bodies never lie…our Ego’s do. Sometimes we think we want something but it’s not our true soul calling. We get conditioned by society, our gender, money, and the media, to do certain things by certain ages and in a certain way…it’s important that we tap into our bodies and our intuition, as this is where the truth lies. To get that energy flowing towards our greatest good is a daily practice. I need you

There is a strategy behind packaging your services to guarantee they will actually sell. After all that is the point here right? You are running a business, not spending all of this time, heart, and energy for a hobby. Most of my business-coaching clients come to me after they are fed up, exhausted, and feeling deflated after trying it all but their shiz still isn’t selling, at least not with any ease. I get it, I’ve been there. My first three years of business I spent hustling my bootie off doing tons of presentations and sales calls, with a less than impressive close rate (this is number of people who buy from you compared to the number of people/businesses you pitched). My rate was 35% at best. Yes I made legit cash, around 200K per year, BUT, I was grinding away to make that number, so much so, that I wanted to quit on a weekly basis, as being an employee was waaaaay easier. When I was on my last thread, I had heart to heart conversation with my self (I do this often BTW…only child syndrome perhaps)… “Tif

Guess what’s standing between you and the multiple 6 or 7-figure life you desire? It’s not some special strategy (that can easily be taught or paid for). It’s not a different networking company. It’s not having more social media followers. It’s not you getting another certification or credential. Some tough love here…you are the common denominator in all areas of your life. It’s you who is in your own way: The lack of belief in yourself, your lack of trust in yourself, your impatience, and most of all your willingness to surrender to a power greater than yourself (the Universe, God, angels, etc…). Let’s commit to being done with standing in the way of your dreams for 2020. Let’s leave these abundance blockers in 2019. I’ve recorded a special episode for you today, and brought on a guest who is going to teach you how to train your mind to get the life of your desires. Taylor Simpson is a Subconscious Mind Expert, Motivational Speaker, and Money Manifestation Coach. Light a candle, break out the crystals, get y

New Year’s Eve manifesting techniques to set you up for maximum abundance in the New Year: Not sure if you guys know this about me but I have been a student of the Law of Attraction and an active manifestor for 15 years. I studied privately for ten years with a top spiritual guide in the field, for hours every week. One of the many benefits of living in Los Angeles. I see manifesting as an artistic dance. The energy is always moving, and if you skip a step and get lazy, you will end up with a bruised foot. Also in keeping with that analogy, the more you practice the dance, the better at it you get. What’s most important is that you start, even if it’s baby steps….as long as you believe this manifestation thing is possible for you. If you think it’s total hogwash (where is the hell does that term come from anyway? LOL), then don’t bother, as like attracts like, so your disbelief will attract more things and circumstances to prove to you that it is in fact hogwash. Today I’m going to share with you my step-by-s

Who is the heck are “THEY” anyway? “THEY will think I’m under qualified.” “THEY will think I’m too fat.” “THEY will think I sound stupid.” “THEY won’t buy from me.” “THEY say you need X, Y, Z in order to be successful.” THEY are the negative committee inside our own brains. Usually comprised of every toxic person we have encountered in our lives. This is great news, as we, our higher abundant selves lead this committee and have 100% voting power. When a “THEY will think,” or a “THEY will say,” enters your mind, I want you to picture yourself in a giant judge chair with a gavel, and slam that thing down and say, “order in the court!” Gain back control of the unruly, ignorant, loud mouths in your committee. Don’t allow them to take over your courtroom. To get you further fired up, I brought on the Queen of Confidence, Rachel Luna. She is a best selling author, sales and confidence strategist, a former US Marine, Founder of Girl Confident, and Host of the live event Confidence Activated. Connect with Rachel: Ins

Here’s why your social media following isn’t growing, even though you are doing “all the things.” There isn’t enough of the REAL you infused into your content. What I mean by the “REAL YOU,” are your quirks, your habits, your obsessions, your silliness, your sass, your playful side, and all the other stuff that you have deemed “boring.” “Tiffany I don’t really do that much, I’m pretty boring, so there isn’t much interesting stuff to share.” LIES LIES LIES LIES No one and I mean no is boring. Everyone is interesting in some way. You just need to convey your “boringness” in an interesting way. Look at your social media platforms that are personal-brand based (versus product-based, like a jewelry company), like mini reality-TV shows. People are voyeurs and nosey by nature, this is why realty-TV and live streaming has taken over. If you have a personal brand, make the damn content more personal, showcasing your uniqueness. I’m an introvert, empath, homebody, so if I can manage to make my “boringness” interesting

“If you keep on believing, the dreams that you wish will come true.” (Cinderella) Have you ever gone back and watched some of your favorite childhood fairytales as an adult? There are so many incredible abundance mindset perspectives that we can apply to our adult lives. In the case of Cinderella, a large part of her life was crap. She was unwanted, abused, and publicly ridiculed. Yet, there was a light within her that couldn’t be dimmed no matter what. She so strongly believed she was meant for more, that she manifested her way to a better life. When I think about it, I have my own Cinderella story, one of abuse to abundance. I’m sure this why even as young as seven years-old I remember watching this movie so many times, I wore out the tape (who remembers those giant Disney VHS tapes and covers?) It’s no wonder that the Universe connected me to a real-life former Disney Princess who was the voice of Cinderella (crazy right?!). This woman is nothing short of remarkable. Deanna Falchook had a severely abusive

Have you lost your business mojo? For some reason many entrepreneurs become so shocked and discouraged when they lose that lovin’ feeling for their business. I want you to know it is absolutely 100% normal to fall out of love for your business many times. In the 11.5 years of me being a full-time entrepreneur, I have been head over heels in love with my businesses, have hated them, have felt indifferent, and then I’ve fallen in love all over again. Just like a long-term romantic partner, you will not be madly in love with them at all times. The sound of them even chewing or how they wash the dishes, will be enough to irritate you some days. Ladies can I get an “AMEN.” The relationship with your business is no different. You will need to work at getting the mojo back for your work, and do your best to keep it alive. For me, that requires an extreme balancing act, which I’m going to share with you. If you are feeling business burnout, then likely your output is out of balance. You have been putting so much ener

Are you SHOULDING all over yourself? “Should I do _______?” or should I do ________?” is responsible for hours of lost sleep, anxiety, ruined manicures, and inaction. Staying in a space of indecisiveness will keep you stuck, and everyday you stay in it is another day further away from your dream life. Indecision is form of fear in disguise. It’s like being in a rocking chair, your mind is moving but you aren’t going to get anywhere. Hence the term “analysis paralysis.” As a hard-core Virgo, Enneagram 6, INFJ, I’m a natural over-analyzer. I want to have back-up plans for the back-up plans. If I stay in this state for too long, it ends up consuming me and causes mental burnout. Can any of you relate? To shake me out that state, I first have to catch my self in it. So I want you to do a daily check in (it takes 15 seconds) and acknowledge anything you have been chewing over in your mind, whether it’s personal or professional. Next, I want you to write down the thing or things that have been taking up space in yo

If you want to become more efficient and productive with your time, ask a Virgo. With running a 7-figure business, a separate multiple-six figure brand, many investments, a nutty travel schedule, two rescue dogs, my high maintenance eyebrows, and my deep passion for sleep….I had to figure out a way to maximize each minute of my day in a way that didn’t feel like my life was controlling me. So I became a task-batching master, and a self-negotiator. You see I don’t enjoy doing anything that makes my brain hurt or that is unnecessarily hard. So for tasks that I dread, I always ask my self, “how can I make this easier, go faster, and be more enjoyable?” Amazing what happens when we ask ourselves great questions, we usually end up with fantastic answers. I’ve put together my best tricks for getting more stuff done in less time; you can thank me after listening. Let me start helping you right now, what is one task that takes up a bunch of your time that you absolutely dread? Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with yo

If you build it they will come, is a fantasy. Business simply doesn’t work that way. It’s more like, before you build it, make sure the people want it and need it, then once you build it, you will need to let specific types of people know about it, over and over and over again in a variety of ways. In coaching thousands of people, I have seen a pattern where solopreneurs can get to about 250K a year, and then they get stuck at that point. Many of you reading this right now may the thinking, “ Tiffany I would love be stuck at 250K.” Yes, reaching that financial milestone is impressive, but if you are a true entrepreneur and want to help the most people possible, you need to have a vision well beyond a quarter of a million dollars. If you don’t plan how you will scale, you will fail. You are going to learn about scaling your business for success on today’s podcast. I invited on a business strategist who helps dozens of companies across the US build and scale their businesses. Adam Flores is a young revolutionar

Things I wish I knew in my first 5 years of entrepreneurship. You guys, I was an entrepreneur long before it was cool, and before this whole #bossbabe thing, and #womensupportingwomen movement. When I made the decision to start a side-hustle business and then quit my prestigious career in pharmaceuticals 11 years ago, I had one person professionally who believed in me, and one person personally. Most everyone thought I was nuts to leave a high paying and high profile corporate career for a dream and a gamble. What they didn’t understand is that I had to, I couldn’t do the corporate grind and ladder climb anymore. I would rather had been a coffee barista then continue in that environment. Can anyone relate? Those first five years in business were insane. It was the blind leading the blind, which left me making many mistakes, costing me tens of thousands of dollars, countless nights of sleep, and me contemplating quitting at least once a week. This is why I’m so passionate about coaching all of you on how to ma

You will never use your kids as an excuse again after you read this! When you have been in management and an entrepreneur for over 11 years, you will have heard every excuse in the book. Everything from time, money, energy, kids, fur babies, traffic, and even Ambien (more on this crazy story later). Making excuses is a way of saying, “it’s just not that important to me.” or “ I really don’t want ___________ badly enough.” People create these false stories to make themselves feel better about not showing up for them, their employers, their clients, or loved ones. Then you add kids into the picture and everyone can give exhausted moms a pass, after all you are taking care of tiny humans 24/7. Even though this sounds like a more reasonable and socially acceptable excuse versus, “the traffic was bad,” or “ I don’t have money to start a business, it is still BULLSH*T. An excuse has truth in it, that’s why it’s an excuse. This is why when you use an excuse enough; you can believe your own story. Mine used to be, “I

Four years ago I had to remove almost everyone from my life, if I wanted to save my own. The toxic people I had in my life were literally killing me (slowly), and I had been allowing it my entire life. You see when you are raised in a highly dysfunctional environment; you get desensitized to unhealthy and toxic behavior. In fact, it becomes familiar, so in a twisted way, it’s actually comfortable to you. So for me I was drawn to narcissists, sociopaths, and active addicts my entire life. Now I wasn’t aware of this subconscious attraction, I just thought I attracted messed up people because that’s all I was worthy of. Then those sick people reinforced the belief that I was unworthy, so round and round the endless revolving door of craziness we go. If you have anyone in your life right now, whether it be a lover, a boss, a “friend,” a coach, or a therapist that makes you feel anxious, nervous, confused, or exhausted after spending time with them….you have a toxic person in your life. Now what Tiffany? Listen to

What are you convincing yourself of? We have between 60,000 to 80,000 thoughts per day, and it’s impressive how many people use a majority of those thoughts up, thinking of all the reasons why they can’t achieve the things they want in life. “I don’t have credentials to teach other people what I know.” “No one is going to read my posts or watch my videos anyway, I’m pretty boring.” “I should have started my business years ago, now it’s too late, the market is saturated.” Imagine if you spent this time and energy thinking of all of the reasons why you can do it, why you should, and why you will succeed, where you would be at today? My professional guess is you would be busy doing the damn thing, making cash, helping the people, working for yourself, doing what you love. The best way to retrain our thinking is with facts. Our minds can’t say, “yeh but” to facts and undeniable evidence. This is why I brought on a former heroin addict turned multi-millionaire onto today’s show. He is real live evidence that anyon

How to know when it’s time to start using Facebook ads for your business… First let me ask you a few key questions to help determine if they are A) necessary and B) if you are ready to take on that risk. Do you have proof of concept that people actually want to pay for your product and/or service? If your audience is organically (without paid ads) buying what you are selling consistently, then you have proof of concept that your niche audience actually wants your stuff. IF this isn’t the case, then before you waste money on ads, you need to refine your offer, your delivery, your niche, your product, and perhaps all of the above until you have consistent buyers. Ads wont’ make people buy something, when no one is buying organically. Period end of story. Do you have a proven advertising customer conversation plan in place for how you are going to take strangers from the Internet, from seeing your Facebook ads into buying your offer? Will you be advertising a free training, or advertising to an e-book and th

Today is a powerful manifesting day. It’s 11/11. For those of you new to the law of attraction and manifestation, 11/11 whether it is the date or the time, or both (that has happened to me may times by the way), is confirmation from the Universe that your deepest desires are being manifested right now for you. Whenever you look at a clock and it’s 11:11, ALWAYS state your desires at that moment, in the present tense. For example, “Money comes to me with ease in unexpected ways and I welcome it.” or “I make enough money as a life coach that I can easily quit my job.” Since today’s date is 11/11, I want you to write and say exactly what you want to manifest and be specific, clear and confident in what you are putting out into the Universe. To help to maximize this energetically powerful day, I created a special podcast episode for you, and brought on a guest who will take your abundance mindset to the next level. Vanessa Valdez is a TV news broadcaster turned radio host; of the popular show Transforming Conscio

“Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.” (Suzy Kassem) Isn’t the power of self-doubt insane? It will make even the most talented, creative, and intelligent people give up before they even started on their dreams. Truly if I didn’t end up in recovery five years ago and cleared my life of all the toxic people, places, and things, my self-doubt would have prevented me from starting ProjectME with Tiffany Carter. The company of my dreams...helping other women make money doing what they love. Self-doubt is actually selfish. If I allowed my doubt to fully take over, I wouldn’t have created this company that’s based in service of helping others. The thousands of people lives I’ve impacted in just a little over a year would have never happened!!!! Take a few minutes and listen to this episode I created for you. You owe it to all of the thousands and even millions of lives; you have yet to change for the better. Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with your host Tiffany Carter, who takes the mystery out of makin

I hear this dream and doubt at least once a day... So you want to be a health coach, but you aren’t sure if the market is too saturated or if you have enough credentials? If you are in or desire to be in the health, wellness, or fitness coaching space, KEEP READING! Yes there are a crap ton of health and fitness coaches out there, but there is also a crap ton of anything where there is a high demand and money to be made, from lawyers, to hair stylists, to business coaches! There will always be room for you in the marketplace as long as you go all-in being uniquely you. There will always be people who need your help specifically, versus someone else’s help, because they feel safe, comfortable, and trust YOU! Now as for the credential thing, this is best answered by the great guest I have on today’s podcast episode. It’s better for you to hear it direct from the source, and don’t worry you know I asked her all of your burning questions. Lindsay Young is a successful health focused entrepreneur, a Certified Tran