Make More Love Not War

All we need is Love Love, Love is all we need. At least that is what The Beatles said. However in international relationships you need more than just Love. You need patience, legal understanding, adaptability, knowledge of cultural differences and much more. We all wish all we needed was love to get through all relationship issues but in the real world road blocks can pop up all around us that make us dig deep to find the strength needed to push beyond just love. In today’s show we explore the difficulties of international relationships and you will be amazed with how tangled this web can be. On today’s show we interview the brilliant and interesting Amy Waterman for the second time. We interviewed Amy last year about her amazing book “The Pleasure Principle” which is all about woman finding their own pleasure instead of simply suffering for others. I highly suggest reading “The Pleasure Principle” and listening to our podcast with her. On today’s show Amy explains the good and bad things about inter

Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

If you already get more sex than you can handle, this podcast is not for you. If you understand everything there is to know about women, please turn this podcast off and go find something else to do. The last thing I want to do is waste your time on helping someone with your vast knowledge get more sex from your female partner or have a better relationship with her. You have this covered 100% so we’ll give you a second to gather your things and leave the room. Hum hum hum Ok everyone else….that person is now gone and we don’t have to worry about them soaking up any of the incredible knowledge that’s in this podcast. We have it all to ourselves and trust me you are in for a treat. On today’s podcast we have the amazing Dr. Rachel Abrams. She owns an integrative Medicine Clinic in Santa Cruz and has been voted “Best Doctor” in Santa Cruz County every year from 2009-2017. How amazing is that? Beyond that remarkable accomplishment….Rachel has written books that I give to my clients all the time. Just l

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

Close your eyes. Now think of your family. Your Mom, Your Dad, Your Aunts and Uncles, Grandparents and Great Grandparents. See them in your mind’s eye all in a room looking at you. They are studying every move and action you make. You feel their judging eyes on you all the time. They say they love the way you are but change. They love your uniqueness but conform. They love how you speak your mind but you’re too loud. They love your ambitious drive but don’t be such a go getter. Then to top it all off this royal court brings you the person of THEIR dreams for you to marry and spend the rest of your life with. I know what you’re thinking; my crazy Aunt and Great Grandpa are not going to pick the person I marry and anyways does this even happen in the 21st Century. Surprisingly, arranged marriages are more common than you may think. So do they work? Is that actually a better way than what we currently do? We have answers to these questions in this podcast. On today’s show we interview Devina Kaur

Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

Benjamin Franklin famously stated, “In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.” That was true in 1789 when he wrote it and it’s still true today. There may be another absolute certainty that even the horn dog himself Uncle Benny would agree with and that’s that men are always in the mood for sex. We all know that Mr. Franklin was at least a little Randy…..no no no I take that back he was extraordinarily Randy all the time. Does anyone really know what he was up to when he was spending all that time in France? I mean come on now….didn’t France invent the French Kiss and Ménage à trios? For a man like Franklin this must have been heaven on earth especially compared with the puritanical Colonial America of the 1770s. So it’s clear to everyone that old Uncle Benny should’ve said, “The only thing certain in this world is death, taxes and men are always in the mood for sex.” That would’ve been 100% accurate and let’s be honest this would’ve made his quote even more famous. But

Where do we stand as a society on actual scientific research on sexuality? There are three key moments in history that mark genuine milestones in the scientific research of sexuality. First was in 1947, when Alfred Kinsey founded the institute for Sex Research at Indiana University provoking controversy at the time. He is best known for the Kinsey scale which rates ones sexual orientation. The second was in 1957, when William Masters and Virginia Johnson pioneered research into the nature of human sexual response and diagnosis and treatment of sexual disorders and dysfunctions. They recorded some of the first laboratory data on the anatomy and physiology of human sexual response based on direct observation of 382 women and 312 men in what is estimated to be "10,000 complete cycles of sexual response". Their findings on the nature of female sexual arousal and orgasms dispelled many long-standing misconceptions. The third was in 2015, when Nicole Prause Ph.D. founded Liberos a sexual biotechnology compa

What in this world is more difficult than dating? Finding the right person to share your life with is a challenge for anyone no matter how beautiful, rich or talented you are. As Wes Hayden so romantically sang to Jillian Harris on The Bachelorette in 2009 and then the following year on Bachelor Pad to Gia Allemand “Some say Love It Don’t Come Easy”. Of course, he proclaimed to both of these women that he wrote this exact same song for them….UGH….WHAT a sleaze ball. Needless to say, he was not there for the right reason….but I digress. Back to my question….so what’s more difficult than dating? Is it math or quantum physics or maybe it’s figuring out the meaning of life? All of those things are nothing compared to what the real answer is. Are you ready for the answer…..it’s dating as a single parent. I can hear everyone right now saying….that’s right Terah! Dating is tough enough but dating as a single parent is even more difficult. Who wants to waste time away from your kids to go on another bad da

Welcome to the Make More Love Not War Bachelor Nation podcast where we talk about all things Bachelor. Have you ever wanted to get a professional therapist’s point of view on the men and women on Bachelor, Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise? Of course you have….lucky for you that’s exactly what I do with my co-host Micah on this podcast. If you are a fan of all things Bachelor Nation like me…honestly who isn’t a huge fan of the best show on TV…., then sit back and enjoy us taking a ridiculous show WAY too serious.

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

Imagine if you will….making the decision to increase your company’s bottom line by improving your employee’s sex life. That’s right....when your employees or co-workers are having a better sex life their relationships at home will be more fulfilled which will in turn create stronger relationships with their co-workers making them more productive at work. This is why companies from around the world are hiring Sexologists to have multiple day retreats to reignite the passion many of their employees have unfortunately lost at home. This loss of passion usually comes down to stories we write in our heads of the sabotage or ill will our partners are doing to us when they are not. We feel something that is not so and then react in negative ways that are not productive to a healthy relationship. Most of this can be solved with simple techniques to help people understand how to communicate more proactive and not reactive. Our guest today, Jessica O’Reilly (aka Dr. Jess) is a sexologist that travels around the w

Are you single and confused by women? Would you like a guided tour into the mysterious mind of a woman? If you are ready to get out of the “Friend Zone” and into the “End Zone”, we have the podcast for you. Many men spend their entire lives in a fog when it comes to women. They don’t understand how to approach them, pick up on the subtle hints, how to turn them on, how to compliment them; in a nutshell they don’t know what woman really want. Some guys will get frustrated with this and give up. They’ll think that women just want jerks or assholes that treat them like crap or it’s just money they want. Other guys will see woman as a challenge that can be understood with hard work. They’ll see woman as a great adventure like climbing an epic mountain like Mount Everest. Just as you would never climb a dangerous mountain like Mount Everest without an expert guide to help you avoid the major pitfalls and sharp cliffs, a wise man challenging himself to understand women better will also find an expert guide

Imagine creating a world where all of your dreams came true simply because you opened your mouth. Want a powerful promotion at work, new high paying job, date the most beautifully interesting person you have ever met; merely open your mouth and let the world bend to your will. What if you could have absolute control over the outcome of your life? Would you run towards this power as fast as a cheetah or hide in your protected safe shell like a turtle? If you are the type of person that wants more control of your life, then you’re in luck because we have what you desire. However, I must caution you that this secret superpower does come with a warning. It has been known to be used for evil, causing harm to innocent people. So as Spider-Man was told by his Uncle Ben, “With great power comes great responsibility.” If you can’t handle a power strong enough to thoroughly transform your life into what you want it to be, then you are listening to the wrong podcast. The last thing we want is to provide you wi

How does one forgive someone that hurt them when they were vulnerable, too young or too weak to fight back? It may feel as if the world is conspiring against you for some strange reason. The pain from this can run so deep that it almost becomes as badge of honor or trophy that feeds your ego with a well earned hatred for this person and what they did to you for years. This hatred can build up for so long that you begin to make it part of you and wonder what it will mean to let it go. You may wonder, “I’m just a victim that allows others to push me around? Am I weak? How can anyone ever love someone like me?” Some people hold on to this victim mentality because they feel this makes the person that hurt them forever lower than them because they now owe them. Therefore, if they forgive they will forever be foregoing what they are owed. In this episode we explore the four pillars that will help you forgive others and yourself to bring you true happiness, joyfulness and freedom to live a better life.

Every generation thinks they invented sex and of course everyone is a natural born sex expert. No reason to bother learning anything else about sex because you got this covered. As a matter of fact, this podcast is full of valuable information on hot sex that will be a complete waste of time for an expert such as yourself. Therefore, I suggest turning this podcast off right now. Don’t burden your ears and mind with knowledge on sexual myths, the good and bad influence of porn, and learn about the process of creating sex toys that actually rock your world. I’m sure there is someone on the planet that would like this information but it’s too bad for us that it’s not you. So please turn this podcast off right now. We’ll wait for you to stop it. Are you still here? Well….obviously you are curious to see what other people don’t know about hot earth shaking sex; those poor poor souls. Maybe one of your friends is one of those unfortunate characters and you just want to see if you can find something to hel

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!