Make More Love Not War

I know this is a podcast but I want to do something that has never been done in podcast history. I’m going to ask you a question and I want you to raise your right hand if you agree and left hand if you disagree. I’m wearing my special VR headset right now that will allow me to see which hand you are holding up. Trust me I am a professional podcaster so please don’t try this at home. Ok….let’s try this out.If you or a family member fell into the dark world of addiction that required going to rehabilitation, would you want your loved ones to be there to support you? Remember raise your right hand for agree and left hand for disagree. Ok….I see the hands going up. Let me count them really quickly. Remember you can raise your left hand if you disagree. Raise em high! Ok… I’m looking… So NO left hands….huh. That’s interesting. It appears that everyone listening to me right now would rather have support from their friends or family to help them recover from addiction instead of facing this daunting ta

The Shameless Sexual Revolution can only be liberated and spread if we escape the oppressive ideology of the past that has been allowed to corrode the deep passion that lies in all women for the explicit objective to advance a morality that holds NO validity today, yesterday or of anytime in the history of all mankind. We, women of the world, together shall forge a new path –NOT because we are weak alone - but because we are stronger as a single sharp point of power with one mind, one body and one soul channeling a revolutionary vision of our design and our values. Are you willing to wait for a better tomorrow to magically appear without sharing in the struggle we all know is required to generate any change in this world? We, SHAMELESS REBELS, are NOT going to wait one more day. We are on the frontlines FIGHTING for all women that love sex. JOIN US as we destroy the shame that has infected women all over the world, causing needless suffering and providing NO value to women whatsoever. JOIN US in this FI

The Shameless Sexual Revolution can only be liberated and spread if we escape the oppressive ideology of the past that has been allowed to corrode the deep passion that lies in all women for the explicit objective to advance a morality that holds NO validity today, yesterday or of anytime in the history of all mankind. We, women of the world, together shall forge a new path –NOT because we are weak alone - but because we are stronger as a single sharp point of power with one mind, one body and one soul channeling a revolutionary vision of our design and our values. Are you willing to wait for a better tomorrow to magically appear without sharing in the struggle we all know is required to generate any change in this world? We, SHAMELESS REBELS, are NOT going to wait one more day. We are on the frontlines FIGHTING for all women that love sex. JOIN US as we destroy the shame that has infected women all over the world, causing needless suffering and providing NO value to women whatsoever. JOIN US in this FI

The Shameless Sexual Revolution can only be liberated and spread if we escape the oppressive ideology of the past that has been allowed to corrode the deep passion that lies in all women for the explicit objective to advance a morality that holds NO validity today, yesterday or of anytime in the history of all mankind. We, women of the world, together shall forge a new path –NOT because we are weak alone - but because we are stronger as a single sharp point of power with one mind, one body and one soul channeling a revolutionary vision of our design and our values. Are you willing to wait for a better tomorrow to magically appear without sharing in the struggle we all know is required to generate any change in this world? We, SHAMELESS REBELS, are NOT going to wait one more day. We are on the frontlines FIGHTING for all women that love sex. JOIN US as we destroy the shame that has infected women all over the world, causing needless suffering and providing NO value to women whatsoever. JOIN US in this FI

Are you a man that feels like woman are just out to get you? All women are crazy and you are tired of putting your time and energy into an endless pit of heartache and misery. Of course, you do everything right and it’s those darn women in some kind of demon club created to destroy your life. Even though you are the only common denominator in all of your relationships, it’s still those evil witches from the deepest darkest levels of hell that are inflicting this tremendous amount of pain on you with nothing but the most intense pleasure in their eyes as they rip your heart out of your chest and stomp on it over and over again. Yeah…that makes sense! I may be going out on a limb here but maybe it’s you? We found a man that discovered he was the problem, the hard way, did the hard work to change it. Now he helps other men balance masculinity, emotional growth, personal awareness and intimacy to have a more passionate relationship with women and oh yeah…better sex. Our guest today, Ryan Thomas, is the Fo

Marcus Aurelius, the Great Stoic Roman Emperor, wrote, “The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.” I can hear you saying, what exactly does that mean Terah? This quote is all about how an obstacle in the path you are taking can look like a disaster but turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you because it required you to forge a new path that ended up being your calling. That is exactly what happened with our guest today. She was in a marriage that she thought was going great and then out of the blue she found out that her husband had an affair. This was devastating to her on many different levels. In her search for understanding and what to do next her journey to find the help she needed fell flat. The only message she got from what to do next was leave him, forgive him or stay with him. She felt that this was incomplete and she forged her own path to become an expert on how to help people recover after an affair. She is recognized as the leader i

What’s more important than good communication? Even if you know what to say you still have to deliver that message in a manner that is understood by the other person. Imagine you are swimming in the beautiful Mediterranean Sea off the Southern coast of France on a perfect summer’s day. Then all the sudden you hear people yelling “Requin, Requin, Requin!!” and pointing your direction. You have no idea what they are saying but you gather that they must be so impressed with your swimming skills that they want everyone to watch you. Just as you’re filled with so much pride for being the world’s greatest swimmer, you feel a shark swim right beside you. At this very moment, you figure out that “Requin” means shark in French you are in trouble. This is why I think some words need to be international words like SHARK….but I digress. Communication is at the heart of human connection which is fundamental to living a life full of solidarity. Our guest today, Dr. Jose Rodriguez (aka Dr. J) is returning to our p

The Shameless Sexual Revolution can only be liberated and spread if we escape the oppressive ideology of the past that has been allowed to corrode the deep passion that lies in all women for the explicit objective to advance a morality that holds NO validity today, yesterday or of anytime in the history of all mankind. We, women of the world, together shall forge a new path –NOT because we are weak alone - but because we are stronger as a single sharp point of power with one mind, one body and one soul channeling a revolutionary vision of our design and our values. Are you willing to wait for a better tomorrow to magically appear without sharing in the struggle we all know is required to generate any change in this world? We, SHAMELESS REBELS, are NOT going to wait one more day. We are on the frontlines FIGHTING for all women that love sex. JOIN US as we destroy the shame that has infected women all over the world, causing needless suffering and providing NO value to women whatsoever. JOIN US in this FI

Sex workers! Did Terah just say sex workers? Oh dear!....what in the world is she up to in this podcast? Is Terah going to make us all join the sex industry by becoming a stripper, dominatrix, porn star or escort? NO, of course not…..but I bet you would love to hear from someone that has done all of this underworld shenanigans for over two decades. Don’t act like you are not curious to hear firsthand what it is like to be a prostitute and experience this lifestyle. If you are the type of person that will be offended hearing about porn stars, strippers and escorts, please turn this podcast off right now. I’ll even give you a few seconds of silence for you to find the off button. Ok….we cleared out the boring people from the room and it’s only us ne'er-do-wells left to enjoy hearing all about the real life experiences of a woman that spent 25 years in and around the sex industry.Our guest today, Lola Davina will change your mind on what a sex worker is and can successfully contribute to the world. She

The Shameless Sexual Revolution can only be liberated and spread if we escape the oppressive ideology of the past that has been allowed to corrode the deep passion that lies in all women for the explicit objective to advance a morality that holds NO validity today, yesterday or of anytime in the history of all mankind. We, women of the world, together shall forge a new path –NOT because we are weak alone - but because we are stronger as a single sharp point of power with one mind, one body and one soul channeling a revolutionary vision of our design and our values. Are you willing to wait for a better tomorrow to magically appear without sharing in the struggle we all know is required to generate any change in this world? We, SHAMELESS REBELS, are NOT going to wait one more day. We are on the frontlines FIGHTING for all women that love sex. JOIN US as we destroy the shame that has infected women all over the world, causing needless suffering and providing NO value to women whatsoever. JOIN US in this FI

It’s time to talk about EMDR, Brainspotting, Ego State Hypnosis, Age Regression Hypnosis, Feeling State Addiction Protocol, Gestalt, Forgiveness Hypnosis, DeTur-Eye Movement Desensitization, Informed Soul Hypnosis and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Of course, everyone knows all about this and frankly, I’m not even sure why we brought in an expert to explain all of these very common therapy methods and I’m pretty sure you were all discussing the benefits of each one of them yesterday at lunch. I can hear the conversation now. Hey Bob, how much do you like DeTur-Eye Movement Desensitization over Cognitive Behavioral Therapy or is Gestalt the way I should go with my therapist? Come on John… everyone knows that for the deep work you need do Age Regression Hypnosis with a splash of Brainspotting. DUH! This kind of buzz is filling lunch tables all over the world. Or is it? Of course, NOT! There are so many new and exciting therapy methods that are becoming mainstream today that it can be challenging for the

What is the deal with swingers? I’m sure when many of you hear the word swinger you think of a 1970s porn star looking dude with a very hairy chest, obnoxious gold necklaces jingling around his neck and sporting a vulgar mustache being a total creeper around all the ladies. You see him and think GROSS! You wonder why one woman would be with him let alone many. You think if this guy was lucky enough to get one woman to marry his goofy ass, he needs to count his incredible blessings and not even bring up the idea of wife swapping to his poor unfortunate wife. Of course, I’m laying out the stereotype of a swinger that has been created by the media. The reality is very normal couples that you would never suspect are swinging every single day. They are swapping wives, going to play parties, having sex while their partner watches or not, and pretty much engaging is a sexual lifestyle many people can’t even imagine. We wanted to bring you a couple that is actively swinging and letting everyone know what the

If you are in a relationship that is in trouble, there are many wonderful workshops to help you learn the skills to turn your situation around. However, if you are single, there are no workshops for you. You have to figure it out all on your own. So basically what will happen is you will end up in a relationship that is struggling and then you can go to workshop to fix it. Awesome….right? Are you thinking what I’m thinking? That seems ass backward….my Dad coming out in me right now. Wouldn’t it be better to learn the skills before you get into a relationship? Seems pretty simple to us….right? Good thing is I found someone that went the extra mile to fill this huge void for singles. This amazing woman thinks outside of the box, has no fear of rolling up her sleeves to work hard and has a real passion to be positive force in many people’s lives. Our guest today, Stacy Hubbard is a certified Gottman Therapist and Master Trainer with the Gottman Institute and created the first ever workshop for singles

Is it ok to tell your wife that she does look fat in that dress? What exactly is the value in lying to her? What would your life be like if you stopped holding back what you thought or felt with your friends and family and expressed yourself completely? Do we all feel like everyone is weak and will crumble back into stardust if they know the truth? Just as Jack Nicholson brilliantly expressed in the movie “A Few Good Men”, are we all screaming to ourselves “You can’t handle the Truth!” Most of us grew up learning from our parents that a little white lie here and there is just part of polite society. No good reason to tell Grandma that her apple pie is the worst desert you have ever eaten in your life. She slaved over it all day to make it perfect. Instead we tell her, “Grandma this apple pie is even better than I remember. I experience all the pleasures of heaven with each and every bite. Can I please have another piece?” By the way….my Grandma’s apple pie was actually amazing and I wish I could ha

The Shameless Sexual Revolution can only be liberated and spread if we escape the oppressive ideology of the past that has been allowed to corrode the deep passion that lies in all women for the explicit objective to advance a morality that holds NO validity today, yesterday or of anytime in the history of all mankind. We, women of the world, together shall forge a new path –NOT because we are weak alone - but because we are stronger as a single sharp point of power with one mind, one body and one soul channeling a revolutionary vision of our design and our values. Are you willing to wait for a better tomorrow to magically appear without sharing in the struggle we all know is required to generate any change in this world? We, SHAMELESS REBELS, are NOT going to wait one more day. We are on the frontlines FIGHTING for all women that love sex. JOIN US as we destroy the shame that has infected women all over the world, causing needless suffering and providing NO value to women whatsoever. JOIN US in this FI

Are you a woman that finds it difficult to enjoy sex because it is painful physically or emotionally? You may find it challenging to ignite the sexual desire within yourself because of past sexual abuse, trauma, shame, body image issues, physical wounds or fear of intimacy. This can lead many women to living a life that is void of orgasms and frankly zero pleasure in the bedroom. They many even justify this terrible situation as a fact of life for them because they simply have a broken vagina. Some may even go as far as turning this unfortunate lack of pleasure into a positive saying things like “at least I don’t have to sleep in the wet spot very much or since I don’t think about sex my mind is free to think about other things”. I appreciate anyone finding the silver lining in a bad situation but you can live a life full of orgasms. There are tools and advice to help women awaken their sexuality in a healthy way and reclaim their libido. If you are living in a sexless relationship and think sex is jus

What is it with this monogamy thing? It sure seems to be difficult for many humans to pull off. Is it natural or just some kind of social norm humans dreamed up one night to keep everyone in line? Some people say it is unnatural and goes against everything in nature. However, many people will point to other animals that will be in lifelong monogamous relationships. So what is the deal with this monogamy thing? Right now you’re thinking, it sure would be extraordinary if a professor would study monogamy, non-monogamy and casual sex to give us solid evidence-based science on this matter once and for all. Lucky for all of you, I found this incredible person so you can stop looking and just sit back and listen. On our show today we interview Dr. Zhana Vrangolova, a New York City based sex researcher, writer and educator. She is currently an adjunct professor at the NYU Psychology department where she teaches the first Human Sexuality course the department has offered in a long long time. She writes abou

The Shameless Sexual Revolution can only be liberated and spread if we escape the oppressive ideology of the past that has been allowed to corrode the deep passion that lies in all women for the explicit objective to advance a morality that holds NO validity today, yesterday or of anytime in the history of all mankind. We, women of the world, together shall forge a new path –NOT because we are weak alone - but because we are stronger as a single sharp point of power with one mind, one body and one soul channeling a revolutionary vision of our design and our values. Are you willing to wait for a better tomorrow to magically appear without sharing in the struggle we all know is required to generate any change in this world? We, SHAMELESS REBELS, are NOT going to wait one more day. We are on the frontlines FIGHTING for all women that love sex. JOIN US as we destroy the shame that has infected women all over the world, causing needless suffering and providing NO value to women whatsoever. JOIN US in this FI

It’s extraordinarily rare but there are moments in our lives that can only be described as a dream. One from which it seems like you are floating above yourself, looking down at the event happening and you’re in complete disbelief that that is you. This is exactly what happened to me when I interviewed our guests for today’s podcast. I have used their therapy method in my private practice to help many people get through situations that were destroying their relationships for many years. These guests have played such a massive role in who I am professionally that saying it was an honor is too weak - It was magical. On our show today we have Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, internationally-respected couple's therapists, educators, speakers, and New York Times bestselling authors. Together, they have written over 10 books with more than 4 million copies sold, including the timeless classic, “Getting the Love You Want” which has been fully revised for 2019 so go order it right now. Actually wait unti

The Shameless Sexual Revolution can only be liberated and spread if we escape the oppressive ideology of the past that has been allowed to corrode the deep passion that lies in all women for the explicit objective to advance a morality that holds NO validity today, yesterday or of anytime in the history of all mankind. We, women of the world, together shall forge a new path –NOT because we are weak alone - but because we are stronger as a single sharp point of power with one mind, one body and one soul channeling a revolutionary vision of our design and our values. Are you willing to wait for a better tomorrow to magically appear without sharing in the struggle we all know is required to generate any change in this world? We, SHAMELESS REBELS, are NOT going to wait one more day. We are on the frontlines FIGHTING for all women that love sex. JOIN US as we destroy the shame that has infected women all over the world, causing needless suffering and providing NO value to women whatsoever. JOIN US in this FI