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The Number One reason you are feeling stuck. Time for some real talk, Coach Tiff style. You aren’t stuck; you simply don’t see a clear way out of your current situation that you can achieve without a crap-ton of pain and sacrifice. I used to say I was “stuck” so often that I got sick of hearing my self. The truth is, it was easier for me to feel “stuck,” then it was for me to take the scary action required to move forward. You likely don’t know the entire roadmap to your end goal, none of us do!!! But I bet you do know several actions you could take, or something you could start doing today that will move you towards that goal. Hmmmmmm mmmmm hate me yet??!! Bottom line is you are choosing to stay in the familiar discomfort of stuck, versus the terrifying feeling of taking real action towards your dreams. There is no way to make real change in your life without feeling scared. Maybe there are people in your life you need to disconnect from or break up with, your life will be better for it, but it’s scary and u

Are you being an unintentional CREEP?   I get at least 5-10 DMs a day that read something like this: “Girl I love your feed! I see you’re a busy boss babe, and it can be hard to fit in proper nutrition to keep you going. I’d love to offer you a free 15-minute nutrition consulting call, and share how I can get you feeling your best.” For the record, she lost me right at “I see you’re a busy boss babe.” It reeked of insincerity and felt like I was being sold to. Would someone ever say this sentence in real life while waiting for a cocktail? I repeat, I do not want you sending these types of messages to anyone, it’s a waste of your time and they don’t work. Many of you have this belief, that in order to get clients and cash on social media, you have to do this type of DM outreach, which is also why you are so resistant to starting or even growing your business. Let me be clear, you do not need to send any messages of any kind that feel empty, gross, or annoying to you in order for you to be successful. I have NE

You have to be willing to say this sentence in order to get exactly what you want. It’s so simple, yet one of the hardest things to put into practice. “No.” Being able to say, “no,” without preparing an excuse or giving some explanation, without apologizing for it….was pure agony for me. Because people sensed this about me my entire life, I got used, walked all over, and taken for granted in both business and my personal life. It wasn’t until I literally almost died from people pleasing, over-extending my self, and tending to everyone needs above my own, that I was willing to change my operating system. I believed that if I told someone I wanted something different than what they wanted, or something they wouldn’t approve of, that they would hate me, leave me, or ridicule me. This scared me to the point where I was willing to suffer and abandon my own needs and desires. I’m sharing this vulnerable truth about me; because I want you to hear what I wish someone had taught me from birth. If you aren’t happy in c

Can’t figure out how to include all the things you love into your business? I’m going to share some things with you that I wish someone told me on repeat. Not every passion or interest of yours is meant to be monetized. Not every passion or interest of yours is best suited to serve your ideal client. When we try to include too many things, services, and offers into our brand, it’s confusing to your audience, and confused people DON’T BUY. It takes most buyers 6-8 times of hearing and seeing the same offer, before they hand over their cash. So, if you are sharing your favorite hair products, then talking about manifestation, then sharing your Amazon store, then sharing about your new “drop that baby weight” program…your audience will end up remembering NOTHING other than, “Suzie does a lot stuff.” Issue with all of the multi-passionate people I coach, is your focus ends up scattered and in the wrong place. The focus must be on serving your ideal client exactly what they believe they need and want, in the packa

To be a highly respected coach, who generates great results for their clients, requires a next level version of you. I used to be a #Basic coach simply because I was new to it, didn’t know any better, and didn’t really know my self. Like with everything else, you improve with time, experience, and the humility to always be learning and growing. After coaching more than 1500 people privately, and tens of thousands in group settings, I can identify what separates exceptional coaches from #Basic coaches. Don’t get me wrong #Basic coach can still get results…think of a #Basic entry level fitness trainer at the gym….you are still getting accountability and someone correcting your form, but what you aren’t getting (or paying for) are the years of experience of working with different body and personality types, knowing exactly what works and what doesn’t. To be an exceptional coach, you have to be willing to do the deep, often gut-wrenching inner healing work on yourself. You can’t skip this work and expect to help

I came close to dying twice, once by choice and the other as a result of a health crisis. Both of these rock bottom times in my life had one major thing in common, but it took years of reflection to realize it. September 2014 on my birthday, I had a plan to kill my self by way of pills. They were all laid out on my kitchen counter. I was exhausted and tired of life….it felt like it was way to much work to live, in exchange for tiny glimpses of happiness. In 2017, I was neck deep in a health crisis that 7 different doctors couldn’t figure out (two even told me it was all in my head), and my body was at war with me, and there wasn’t anything that was working. I was couch-bound for months, didn’t even have the energy to go the grocery store, and I ballooned in weight and full-body inflammation. I had no hope. Nothing was working. The millions I had in the bank didn’t matter. My prayers didn’t seem like they were being answered. I knew I was dying. What led me to deaths door were my beliefs. My belief that I wasn

Want to learn how to have your posts go viral on Instagram? Your answer better be a BIG FAT YES, if you have a business, or want to make money using Instagram. No, you don’t have to go viral in order to make great money on the Gram, but it certainly will help you grow your audience faster, and expand your influencer further. When I started my ProjectME with Tiffany Instagram account around two-plus years ago, I assumed in order to have a post go viral you had to have a big following and/or be some Insta-famous influencer. Then I saw some small-ish accounts I followed have some of their posts get a crazy amount of likes and shares….that began my quest, well really my obsession (Virgo problems) to figure out how I could do this with my own content. It took me many months of experimenting with content to figure it out, BUT I DID! As always, one of my motivators in learning new things is to eventually teach those skills, tricks, and techniques to all of you. Get ready to go viral people!!!! Welcome to ProjectME t

Seven out of ten people feel imposter syndrome at least once in their lives. The feeling of being a fraud or being “found out,” is something I struggled with most of my life, up until about four years ago. I never felt like I was all that book smart, as I had to study so much longer than anyone I knew to even squeeze out an A-, unless of course it was a broadcasting or public speaking class. Deep down, I knew it was my hustle, determination, and grit that created my success…certainly not my intelligence. Since I held onto this insecurity of not being some Ivy school grad or even being able to do math in my head, I felt like, “if they only knew the truth, they would fire me.” Since our beliefs create our reality, I would shy away from people, clients, colleagues, and opportunities, where I may be “found out.” This only compounded my already low self-worth and self-doubt. I wasn’t able to shift out of this distorted thinking until I started diligently doing the inner work to learn how to even like, then love, a

Being an entrepreneur doesn’t equal complete financial freedom. Complete freedom comes from knowing you don’t have to exchange your time and energy for money. No, you don’t just wake up one day and start making money while you’re sleeping. It’s a process you work towards. The reason why at least 60% of my income is passive, meaning I don’t have to directly exchange time/energy to generate that cash, is because I’ve built up multiple passive income streams over months and years, NOT OVERNIGHT. I started ProjectME because I want to teach you how to create this true freedom for yourself, to never have to depend on a person, job, or intuition for money ever again. When we depend on one main way to make a bulk of our income, that is when we feel stuck, trapped, unmotivated, and get burned out. I have a vulgar saying I like to use (I know shocking)….it’s called having “F*&K YOU MONEY,” meaning you can say (even lovingly) F You to anything or anyone that no longer serves you, because you’ve got cash flowin’ in f

Some serious shiz went down in Sedona…I’ve been strongly called to share it with you. For those of you who know me, you know I love to have a plan, for a plan, for yet another backup plan, hello Enneagram 6. So it takes some serious daily mindset work to remind my self to slow my roll, get quiet, connect with divine energy, and trust my intuition. If you have been stuck in a state of confusion about a decision or what to do next, you gotta hear this story. There are some things I’ve been obsessing over in my crazy brain, which I know is a waste of energy, so during one of my pool floats, I surrendered these things to the Universe, to God, to my angels, and I said, “ this is too much for me, I surrender to you, please guide me in a way that I can clearly understand.” And I truly did let those things go, and believed with my entire being that I would be guided, in divine timing. Flash forward a week and somehow my trip to Scottsdale, Arizona, turned into a road trip (which I have never done in my entire life….I

The game-changing secret to covering strangers into paying clients, without exhausting yourself trying to chase people down. Amazing how we as humans make things so much more complicated then they need to be. I can easily slip into that mode. Anytime the negative committee in my brain wants me to believe something is hard or not enjoyable, I ask my self, “how can I do this in a way that feels easy and fun?” Look at converting strangers into paying clients as an art versus some enormous task. Remember, mindset can dismantle even the best strategies and systems. The key to attracting ideal clients is to develop a relationship so close with your IC, that you know them as well as your bestie. You need to know what they are: feeling thinking worrying about what makes him/her (she/he) laugh? what would make him/her (she/he) feel less alone, heard, supported, and understood? Care about, think about, and pour just as much energy and love into your IC as you do with your best friend. Soon your content, your stories, y

Is fear paralyzing you from going ALL-IN on your dreams? It took me 10 years to go ALL-IN with ProjectME with Tiffany Carter!!! I knew deep down this was a huge part of my divine purpose, and that scared the hell out of me. “What if I fail at living out my purpose, then what?” Starting my first business was scary, but nowhere near as scary as creating a business that fulfilled my soul calling, where I was the face of the brand. What finally made me rip off the Band-Aid is the discomfort of resisting my dreams and desires became far greater than the fear of failing at them. What you resist…. persists. That divine purpose of yours will NEVER go away, the nudges will turn into pushes, then pushes will turn into shoves, and you will get sick and tired of the mental and emotional insanity you are putting yourself through. Sound familiar to any of you? There is no way around this fear; it’s part of being a human. It’s a matter of believing in your dream and the people you are meant to help, so much, that you are wi

Create your own IT FACTOR, to stand out in a saturated market. How many of you have said, “but there are so many people already doing what I want to do?” Then you start scrolling…and the Comparasionitis takes hold and your Inner Bully starts pointing out all of the things you don’t have, “you don’t have the credentials like she does;” “you don’t have dozens of testimonials;” “your pictures suck and no way will your abs ever look like that.” THE END. Now you have halted production on your dream business. Well, I won’t allow you to stay in that zone, because I know if you have that calling inside you, you were meant to do it, in fact, you were designed for it. Otherwise you wouldn’t have that vision sitting on your heart at all. You would be totally satisfied where you are at, so clearly you were MEANT FOR MORE. The secret sauce to standing out from the crowded marketplace lies within you. Your unique energy. Your unique perspective. Your unique personality. Your unique style. Your unique quirks. As the Founder

If you aren’t taking advantage of this social media feature to build your business, you are majorly missing out. There are so many social platforms, features, apps, and moving parts, it can get really overwhelming trying to determine which ones are worth your time and energy. It seems like all of the people who are “killin’ it” in your industry are doing ALL THE THINGS, which can feel so discouraging, and seems impossible and exhausting. I felt the same damn way. BUT I also know from being an entrepreneur for 12 years, that doing a select few things REALLY WELL, trumps doing 15 things half-ass. For sure it is worth your time, effort, and energy to use and learn the IGTV feature on Instagram. Right now, IGTV video posts in your feed are getting between 8-10 times the engagement (views, comments, DMs, Saves) than ANY other style of post. (Well… unless you are shaking your A*S on the Gram…which isn’t necessary BTW). My social media team and I have been experimenting with IGTV since it first came out, so now I ca

So no one is buying your coaching services? Let’s discuss why… One of the worst feelings is to know that you have the skills, talent, compassion, and integrity to help people, but no one is applying or buying your services. Then you start scrolling on the social media, and you see all of these Boss Babes & Dudes selling out their coaching programs, getting raving testimonials from thrilled clients, and it seems like they are doing it with such ease. RIGHT??!!! The negative committee in your brain starts getting loud, “What am I doing wrong?” “How are they having all of this success? I know I have just as much or even more to offer people?” Don’t you wish someone would just be blunt AF and tell you WTF you are doing wrong, and what you need to be doing instead? I know I did when I was in my first 18 months of business….but there was no one 12 years ago, so I had to figure it out on my own (which is why it took me so dang long… not recommended). This is why is it my mission to be that kind of business and s

You have a major choice to make today, do you want to stay in the SH*T or SHIFT? This is the conversation I had with my self last Monday, after a three weeks of feeling depressed, unmotivated, and low-energy. (Yes, I do I have regular conversations with my self, often out loud! Anyone else do this???) I was sick and tried of my self and how I was feeling…none of my go-to tools were cutting it. Maybe I would get a short bump after a mini-dance party or a float session in the pool, but within a couple of hours, I was right back to the “blahs.” If you’re at the point, where you are sick and tired of where you’re at in your life emotionally, financially, or energetically….you gotta have a tough-love conversation with yourself, “Stay in the SH*T or SHIFT? What’s it gonna be girl?” What I mean by SHIFT (in ALL CAPS on purpose) is not just taking action, its taking different actions with consistency so your behavior patterns SHIFT. If you never want to feel financially insecure again, taking some different actions w

How to Create a killer Instagram post in 15 minutes. Is creating content consuming all of your time and energy? Two years ago, when I first started my ProjectME with Tiffany Instagram channel (with 3 followers), I was spending hours every single day writing posts, finding hashtags, and figuring out what images to use. Doing this while running my other 7-figure business was not a good use of my time. I had to create an Instagram posting efficiently plan, if I wanted my account to grow without losing my damn mind. One killer IG post shouldn’t take you any long than 15 minutes. Don’t you just love the people out there saying you can batch two weeks of content in 30 minutes!!! HA! LIES!!! I explain my post creation process in detail on this podcast episode, complete with examples; I’ll take you through it step by step. Here are some bonus tips to speeding up content creation: Use bullet points inside your caption versus trying to write long eloquent paragraphs. Way faster and easier to write. Focus your time on

Caring more about what “THEY” will think what or “THEY” will say, than your dreams is an act of self-neglect. Dedicating your mental energy towards other people’s opinions on your life is corrupting your goals, and in turn your ultimate joy. “I get that Tiff, so how do I stop caring so much about what other people think?” You have to consistently remind yourself that: YOU are the Most Exceptional project of your life and no one is responsible for your happiness other than you (#ProjectME). These other people don’t pay your bills, and if they do help you financially, clearly it comes with unhealthy conditions (you need to break off that dependency on them). Your mission, your purpose, and the people you want to help serve are far more important than the sting of someone criticizing you, thinking what you are doing is dumb, or someone making fun of you behind your back. Imagine if the people you admire and who’ve helped you, never went ALL-IN on their dreams out of fear of what “THEY” would think of say. We w

The Number One Reason Why You aren’t Taking Consistent Action on your Goals, and How to Change it. Isn’t it the worst feeling when you tell yourself or even another person that you are finally going to start X or you are going to finally finish Y this week, then days pass and you still haven’t done jack?!!!! You know you need to do X and Y if you want what you say you want in your life, yet you feel stuck, unmotivated, and a boat load of shame around it. Most people make a task out to be so big in our minds that we believe it will require a lot of work, time and energy to complete it perfectly. You don’t even want to begin this “huge task” unless you are in the perfect mood and the starts are aligned. First problem here is the belief that it has to be perfect for you to reap the rewards. This perfection belief causes, as I call it, Perfection Paralysis. A dream-robbing condition, which prevents you from even starting, because the self-Imposed expectations are so high. That internal pressure sucks the life out

Are you operating like a Manager or a Leader? Not sure if you know this part of my entrepreneurial journey, 4.5 years into running my business full-time, I still couldn’t grow it past 350-400K/year. Yes I’m aware that is still a great amount of revenue, but the business wasn’t growing and I felt stuck. I worked harder, longer, frantically Goggled all the things, and my business still wouldn’t grow. I was so tried, fried, and sick of it that I finally hired a business coach to help me figure out what I was doing wrong. Yes it took me that long to ask for help!!! (not recommended) One of the life-changing moments is when my coach pointed out to me that I was operating like a Manager inside my business (and life) and not a leader. Truthfully, I didn’t even really grasp the difference, but slowly the light bulb turned on. A Manager focuses on putting out fires, tending to employee’s and contractor’s needs, checking in on projects, reviewing and correcting everyone’s work, basically getting into the weeds of it al