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Our default programming is fear.  Unless you were blessed to be raised in a highly conscious healthy environment.  My guess is you weren’t. Neither was I, and I was raised with money.  Having money doesn’t mean you automatically have a great relationship with it. Notice all of the celebrities and mega lotto winners who file for bankruptcy or get in trouble for tax evasion.  When we operate out of this fear of it never working, fear of no one buying, fear that you’ve wasted your time and money….you end up taking fear-based actions: > Playing cheap with your business and not investing in it, for fear you won’t make the money back.  > Showing up half-ass on your social media accounts, because you’re mentally fried from living in that anxious state. > Spinning out in analysis paralysis because you are frantically trying so hard to make it work.  > Coming across desperate or needy when sharing your offers, which only repels clients.  Answer this question every day for yourself: What actions would I take right now

A wildly blunt truth you need to hear.  If you aren’t willing to fail you will never succeed.  Trying to play it safe, and remain moderately comfortable while avoiding looking stupid will make it impossible for you to achieve big things.  Success requires failure and mistakes.  Success requires humility and humbly asking for help.  Success requires you to be messy, imperfect, and vulnerable.  The problem with most struggling entrepreneurs is they want the benefits and rewards of going ALL-IN, but without having to actually jump.  That would be like wanting an incredible marriage, but without the willingness to be deeply open, vulnerable, and work on your own shiz CONSTANTLY.  This is why I say to the people applying and joining my programs, mastermind, or membership > This will 100% pay off for you as long as you are open and willing to trust the process while showing up and doing the required work.  You do have what it takes. Now it’s time for you to jump, instead of waiting to be less scared or ready (that

Leaving a wound unintended can cause great loss.    If you got a nasty scrape on your leg, my guess is you would assess the severity of it  (if it requires medical care), then clean it out, disinfect it, put a bandage on it, and check it daily.    You would do this because you know the consequence of not doing it would be painful, could even end in a nasty life-altering infection.    Leaving your money wounds unaddressed and unattended have just as high of consequences, and part of you knows this and is even experiencing it. Yet you avoid fully addressing them.    This is because, unlike a physical wound, we weren’t taught how to address them…so they fester until the pain is great enough to seek help.    For me, I had to lose almost everything I had built, which was almost a million dollars in a 3-month period, to wake up and prioritize tending to my buried money wounds.    Maybe for you, it’s hard to hold on to money.  Maybe it feels impossible to make the money you desire.  Maybe you’ve got yourself in a he

I had it all wrong and it wasn’t working.  When I first entered the online coaching world, I thought in order to have people trust me with their time and money; I had to show up as corporate newscaster Tiffany.  Hair and make-up done No swearing Perfect Posture Serious tone and Business-only mode So I spend 18K on hiring a top video crew, glam team, lighting expert, and hundreds of hours of my time painstakingly coming up with high value detailed pieces of content.    Only a short time in, I started dreading this new business I was creating, which was the exact opposite reason why I started it. I already had a successful 7-figure business specializing in the medical professional and pharmaceutical space…this is where Corporate Tiff hangs out. I started ProjectME the Podcast and Business Coaching brand to be 100% me, have fun, and help others make a mega yacht-load of money doing what they love.  It was a Wednesday morning coffee moment when I decided to enter the ZFG Zone.  “F it, I’m showing up like me, hidi

You’re trying to control destiny.  It’s understandable why we do this…it comes from fear. We’re afraid that it might not happen, and that would be painful or even life-altering.  Last time I checked, forcing your will leaves no room for faith. So basically when we are in self-will we are saying to God and the Universe, “I don’t trust that you have my best interest at heart and that you will follow through.”  So how does one surrender when you logically need money coming into your business?  It’s tough, but your job is to keep showing up KNOWING the abundance is coming…and taking actions based on faith.  Yes, it’s hard as hell…and it’s the only thing that works.  When you’re in the energy of trust, surrender, and knowing…you behave differently, you think differently, and this is highly attractive energy to people.  Your tightly wound and worrying energy is repelling the exact thing you want.  Learn exactly how to do this mind-fu€ery, and watch EVERYTHING change in your life quickly. ProjectME Posse Group Coach

This thought almost killed my dreams. For ten years I would scroll and think that I could do this, and I wanted to do this, BUT, “who would listen to me when there are famous people like Tony Robbins?”  Imagine how many more millions of people I could have helped make millions of dollars if I had just chosen to trust that I had this vision on my heart for a reason, and flippin’ go for it.  You wouldn’t have that pull, that desire, that dream IF it wasn’t meant for you.  The reason ProjectME with Tiffany Carter the coaching brand and podcast grew so quickly isn’t because I had connections, did ads, or worked 12 hours a day…it’s because the coaching industry was craving someone like me who was real, raw, and no BS. There are thousands if not millions of people wishing someone like you existed to learn from, to hire, to connect with….and it’s your job to trust this calling and make some BOSS MOVES.  I purposely brought on this MOM BOSS who started from scratch with zero help or connections….she’s going to share

It’s not the money you’re after it’s the feeling you believe great wealth will provide you: Freedom, Options, Security, Experiences, etc… Anyone who tells you that money doesn’t matter is either A: Already rich or B: is broke and has zero initiative to change their circumstances  Money does matter… the more guilt and self-judgment you create around wanting more >>> the Universe will withhold that abundance from you.  One of the top manifestation blockers I see when clients come to me is not allowing themselves to deeply desire, appreciate, and love money.  You may feel like you NEED money…and that is a very different energy than desiring money.  NEEDING it has fear-based energy attached to it…a thirsty kinda vibe.  DESIRING has abundant energy attached to it…an attractive magnetic vibe.  It can be scary to really DESIRE something because we are trying to avoid the pain and hurt if we don’t get it. That resistance actually causes us to NOT GET the thing we want.  I had the same issue…I was completely unaware o

Setting aside our dreams comes from this false belief… A belief that we have an “either-or” life instead of an “and” life.  Either you’re a great mom or a successful entrepreneur. Either you value quality family time, or you abandon your family for work. Either you make ends meet and do OK financially, or you make great sacrifices to become rich.  Sound familiar?  I want you to reframe the beliefs you have swirling in that wild mind of yours, and remove the “I must pick one or the other” aspect from them.  And witness your life quickly expand in beautiful ways.  Like this… I get to be a great mom AND show my kids the importance of honoring your dreams.  I’m going to design my business around my life, which will provide me with more time, money, and energy to pour into my loved ones.  To have the wealth I desire nothing needs to be sacrificed. I can simply shift some things around just as I have when I decided I was going to start eating healthier. It gets to be enjoyable with a feeling of ease. My most reques

Avoiding toxic people is impossible. They are everywhere…inside your family, your friend group, your neighborhood, dating apps, and your business.  It’s easy as survivors of these toxic people, to blame ourselves for not seeing the signs, and for tolerating their unacceptable and abusive behavior.  Truth is…some of these people like covert narcissists, are master manipulators and even the most street-smart people on the planet would fall for their act.  When you have a big heart and are a trusting person who doesn’t think this way, it’s impossible to catch all the red flags.   Being that I was raised by a narcissist and surrounded by highly toxic people and pedophiles… red flags appear normal to me, as they’re familiar.  The key isn’t to focus on NOT attracting them, as that’s unrealistic…the key is to learn how to recognize when your energy and life force are being slowly sucked away…and then set boundaries to protect yourself.  My dear friend and Healing Strategist Ana Maria and I had a deeply intimate con

I F’ing LOVE complaining, in fact, it’s a necessary part of my manifestation process.  Every day I hear someone make an apology after they vent or complain about something that’s upsetting them. My response is always the same… “Please complain, love, you need to get it out…you are allowed to have all of your feelings.” Most of us were taught that complaining is BAD. That makes you a negative person, ungrateful, and even a downer. I was strictly NOT ALLOWED to utter anything that could be taken as a complaint growing up (or my mom would verbally abuse me and then ignore me as a form of punishment), and in turn, I never felt fully heard or understood.  Then as an adult, I would judge myself harshly and even beat myself up for being “too negative.” (taking over the “punishing” my mom did to me) Being pleasant and Ms. Positive all the time is a form of denial and dissociation. When I come across someone like this, I know they are in a deep amount of pain with decades of suppressed emotions.  Babies cry. Toddlers

The good news and the tough news… The good news is it’s all up to you whether you go for that dream in your heart or not. It’s not dependent on any other person, place, or thing.  The tough news is only you contain the power to believe you are worthy of being the star of your own life, and that power is often buried under layers of faulty programming, trauma, and negative experiences.  The picture you have a garden that you can see from the kitchen window…right now it’s an eyesore, filled with weeds and dead leaves, your body fills with dread at the thought of tackling this project. So you keep putting it off, even though every time you’re in the kitchen, you say, “ I really need to clean up that garden it looks terrible.” You’re so embarrassed by this eyesore, that you’ve even avoided hosting a party at your house UNTIL you get it cleaned up. It’s been 4 years.  (For me it was 10 years of watching the weeds take over, and each year that went by the task of tending to it seemed more and more overwhelming.) Th

For years I believed God forgot about me.  I felt like my prayers went unanswered to the point where I lost all faith and hope.  I studied the Law of Attraction and manifestation for 8 years diligently and felt like nothing was happening outside of an occasional rock star parking spot, and some chance meetings.  Often I would lie awake alone at night pleading “what am I missing here Universe, God, Angels, any one??”    I never felt like I got a clear sign or answer. In fact, I gave up hope of even getting one.  7.5 years ago I made the decision I would leave this earth on my birthday. It was my gift to myself, to finally be free of all the pain.  I really didn’t want to die, but I also couldn’t go on living that way, and I was exhausted from trying.  Obviously, we know God blocked my plan…that was the real start of my spiritual awakening. All of it had to go down this way in order for me to be willing to do the deep inner healing work required for me to help millions of others.  This is something I could have

What you avoid WILL persist. It’s incredible how much effort, time, and money we humans will spend on avoiding discomfort.  The scary thing is you probably aren’t aware it.  I’ve had the privilege of coaching thousands of people intimately, and I started to notice a pattern with people who felt “stuck,” and like “nothing was working in their business.” The pattern is they were spending all of their energy trying to avoid the pain, the vulnerability, the awkwardness, the insecurity, and the fear of taking a risk and maybe failing. It would show up in both their mental and physical habits: Eating and drinking things that would in turn lower their energy and reinforce their low self-worth, making it even harder to show up for their dreams. Regularly picking fights with loved ones so they could focus on that immediate situation and be in anger, instead of focusing their attention on starting or growing their business.  Using facts about themselves as a way to excuse them from taking action (ie. I have ADHD, I’m

 It’s quite selfish actually.  We are all given God-driven gifts, talents, unique traits, and ideas…they aren’t there for us to squander them. We have them because they are to be used in some way for the greater good of all.  Maybe you are naturally nurturing and compassionate, plus have a talent for making people feel safe. There are so many career options that pair perfectly with these traits: Become a therapist, a coach, a nurse, a holistic guide, and a breathwork healer.  Maybe you are great at numbers but hate your chosen career path of accounting…ok, so what else are you known for in your family and friend group? What do you love helping people with for free? So many of my clients come to me because they have ZERO PASSION for the career they spent years building, but they are good at it. Just because we are good at something doesn’t mean that is what we are supposed to do. It is simply an option.  Maybe that thing you spent years going to school for happens to prepare you for the business you were desti

The biggest misconception when it comes to manifesting… Most people think in order to be a master manifester you have to mentally and energetically live in an abundant state (AKA high vibe 24/7) otherwise it won’t work.  If that was the case, my crazy over-thinking, complaining-loving ass would be broke.  The Universe knows that you are a human being filled with emotions, hormones, faults, and fears. It is not expecting you to be something that is literally impossible.  Not even the most skilled and experienced manifestation gurus are in a constant abundant state.  If you want to accelerate your manifestations, your job is to spend as much time as possible in the Abundance Zone (as I call it), you don’t need to spend even 50% of your time in it for this to work. I don’t want you to force yourself into it, or manipulate yourself into it….as that mindset is rooted in fear, “I better start thinking more positively right now or I will block my manifestations.” Instead, let’s start by incorporating some new things

 It’s never what you think it is. When we see people we know or admire that have something we deeply desire, our brains immediately come up with assumptions as to how they “got there,” “achieved that thing,” and have that life.  New podcast listeners email and DM every week saying things like, “I assumed you had to work non-stop to be super successful and sacrifice your personal life, thank you for teaching me another way.” Or my favorite…my blunt communicators, “and here I thought you were that rich because you had a rich husband help you, or had some special connections.” (Universe I am open to receiving a super-wealthy husband) In order for your ideal clients to build trust with you quickly online, you must share your sh*t not just showcase the sexy side of your life. Otherwise, your people will assume it’s not possible for them because they aren’t as _________ as you. I share my salary journey and what it REALLY looked like to go from employee to multi-millionaire entrepreneur, so you can see the road is

It’s so easy to slip into this because we are naturally wired to be on alert for potential harm. The cave-woman version of you had to make sure you or your babies weren’t going to be eaten by a savage animal in the middle of the night.  My point is, that we are naturally wired to identify negative, scary, sketchy, worrisome, and dangerous people, places, and things FIRST. So there is no avoiding these thoughts. What we want to do manage is to stay stuck in them.  Social media makes all of this 100 times harder.  You innocently go online to get some content inspiration for your business, maybe even save some Reels or TikToks that you want to recreate for your brand….and before you know it 55 minutes go by, and now you’re feeling defeated like everyone has more success than you, the anxiety and self-doubt hit hard…then cue the thoughts of “Do I really have what it takes?” “Why her and not me?” Right, when you start feeling this way is when I need you to practice a thought pattern interrupt. Almost like you hear

There’s always a catch. If you are a regular listener of my success and money podcast, you’ve heard me say this line on repeat. Whether we decide to take action or not….whether we say “yes” or “no,” there is a pay off and a trade off. This is why so many of us get stuck in over-thinking and over-analyzing, because it’s scary to make the “wrong” choice, and have to suffer the consequences. When you are starting, growing, and running a business….you have to constantly make tough decisions every week, on top of all the tough decisions you already have to make in your personal life. It’s easy to get caught up in magical,  seeing all of these people online (including me) that are living a life of luxury, working with such ease, all while raking in the cash. What 98% of these people don’t show or tell you is all the crap days, tough weeks, and painful messy setbacks that happened along the way. Creating and running a successful business is not for the faint of heart. This shiz gets really hard before the money and

People suck. That was going to be my entire post, but I thought that was a bit dark. You know those weeks where you feel like you’re getting whacked in every area of your life, and you literally can’t have one more thing go wrong…then it does?! I call those “Fu*k everything and everyone” moments. We don’t actually mean it, but we just want to be left alone with in pure silence, no responsibilities, and copious amounts of carbs for two days.  Is that too much to ask Universe?!!!! As much as these seasons suck, when were are getting buried in all of the crap all at once, it’s happening to wake us the F up. God and the Universe gives us many hints and even nudges on things we need to change, shift, let go of, take action on, etc… When we are too busy running around like a spaz to notice them, or are too paralyzed in fear to take action >>> this is when Spirit BRINGS ON THE STORM. If you’re in the middle of a downpour right now, ask yourself, “What is God trying to show me here?” We don’t take scary action typica

You know what’s bullsh!t?? When people complain about not having the money, the friendships, the sex, the freedom, the body, and the life they want, but DON’T TAKE ANY real consistent action to get it. I’m callin’ my self out too, as I’ve done it. Saying, “I’m not happy”….. this or that “needs to change,” and then not anything because I’m scared or don’t want my life disrupted. Well Fu*k me sideways, staying in the unfulfilling and painful situation is already causing a life disruption, so we may as well have it going in a good direction, RIGHT?! Ask yourself, is the discomfort I’m in right now greater than the discomfort of taking the risk and doing something different? It may not be yet…but what this will show you is how “comfortable” you have gotten to be willing to sit in a life you aren’t fully excited to be in. Then my next question to all of us is WHY? Why have we made it acceptable to tolerate anything less than great? You wouldn’t want anything less than great for your kids, so why are there differen