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This is going to piss people off. In no way am I excusing or minimizing anyone’s abusive or hurtful behavior in your life…this has to be discussed. We are the common denominator in our lives, our work, our relationships…so when something is happening on repeat, it is not because you’re a “magnet for toxic people,” or that you “weren’t meant to make a lot of money.” It’s because your nasty inner bully has convinced you of some BS that isn’t true.  Likely you’ve been gaslighting and emotionally abusing yourself all without fully realizing the consequences of it.  In my childhood, I was taught that I was too much, a burden, and not worthy of unconditional love.  So unknowingly I carried those beliefs for decades into my adult life and acted out of those beliefs.  > Accepting scraps in relationships.  > Tolerating abusive behavior from people.  > Avoiding following my true dreams, and settling for a “good enough” corporate career.  Of course, I wasn’t able to repair decades of self-abuse overnight, but it also di