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I used to put deodorant on my face.  FACTS: In my first job as a pharmaceutical sales rep, I was so nervous and scared to approach my potential clients (all high level medical doctors), that I spent the entire day in a full visible sweat. Since I knew that wouldn’t make a good impression (hence the phrase “never let them see you sweat”), I had to put deodorant on my upper lip and brow daily to stop it.  Even though this mega multi-billion dollar corporation I worked for, put me through extensive sales training…even semi-privates with Tony Robbins, that didn’t matter when it was time to for me to go out there and make the sales.  What they didn’t train us how to do, is sell in way that feels good to each person individually, as a highly sensitive, introvert, empath, intuitive…conventional sales methods feel awkward, pushy, and annoying to me. I had to come up with a solution quick or I would have lost my job, my car, and my apartment. This is when my Emotional Based Sales Techniques were born, many years ago,

Posting and hoping for sales is not a strategy. I see what you’re doing online…it’s my job to stalk all you; so I can best show you how to reach your goals. Sometimes that requires me giving you some hardcore Tiff-talks, where I tell you what you need to hear, not necessarily what you want to hear.  You study other people’s posts that you view as being “successful” in your niche. You then use their hashtags….try to talk about similar topics….all the while envying their content wishing yours got all of that engagement too. After spending weeks and maaaaany hours writing, recording, and pretending to be a graphic artist in Canva, you lose steam, feel discouraged, frustrated, and unmotivated…then either give up or feel like you don’t have what it takes to make money online. What you have been doing isn’t a strategy; it called GUESSING. Instead of guessing and hoping something will work, I want you to learn a high-converting content strategy that has been proven repeatedly to work. But first I need you to underst

Want to know how I made 70k from my phone while buzzed at the beach? I was actually surprised the first time this happened. The scarcity side of my brain wanted to believe it was a one-off fluke, but after taking about a week to process it, I knew exactly what I did, and it was something I could easily replicate. If your brain is anything like mine, you are an over-thinker, over-analyzer, and get easily overwhelmed by the never-ending to-do list. When you throw launching programs, products, and offers for your business into the mix, this will take your head spinning to a new wild level. When we are in that state of overwhelm, fear, self-doubt, obsessing, we actually repel the vary things we want, and can even attract more of what we don’t want.  It’s easy to go into fantasyland about something new you are launching while in the creation mode…once you launch it, if you are white-knuckling it waiting for your PayPal notifications to go off, or your inbox to ping with new applications…YOU ARE IN BIG TROUBLE SIS.

I used to think I was savage, but I was average AF. On the surface, I appeared to be as savage as they come. I had the luxury lifestyle, traveled in private jets, generated tens of millions of dollars in sales transactions a year, and appeared to have it all together. The reality, I was a disaster behind the scenes. Working 12-14 hours per day/7 days a week, grinding for every dollar, only resting when I was sick, and hating the world. My limiting beliefs had me operating as average, and it was costing me money, time, and energy that I could never get back. The issue is I had zero clue that I was at the center of it all. So I’m sharing with you exactly what I wish someone pointed out to me on repeat. Stop trying to build your business on your own with little direction, you will waste so much time and money that you may even end up having to quit. Stop playing cheap with your dreams. You are so willing to buy an iphone, get monthly gel manicures, and spend hundreds in take out, but resist hiring a business co

If you want to make BOSS level cash, then you gotta act like one everyday! Straight up, the reason why you aren’t making the level of cash you desire in your business, is because you are operating it like a low level employee instead of a CEO. In my first 2 years as an entrepreneur, I can’t tell you how many times I would beg for a sign from the Universe to show me what in the hell I was suppose to be doing, because what I was doing, wasn’t working well at all. Even when I started to make a consistent 6 figures, I was exhausted, overworked, and actually felt trapped by the very business I created to give my self more freedom. When you manage your day like a Boss, you prioritize your physical and mental health above all else. Most of us were taught that to be successful we had to sacrifice ourselves. Being exhausted and frazzled is normal for a go-getter. What a lie we all innocently bought into. If you want to see lasting success with ease and joy, then you must intentionally map out your time every day. Inst

Money is easy to make….WE are the ones who make hard. Do you feel like making big money seems so far out of reach sometimes? Then you see other people who appear to have all the abundance come to them so quickly and with such ease….it frustrates you like, “what in the hell am I doing wrong?” You see, I’ve made a lot of money the haaaard way…. forcing, grinding, working 7 days a week, being miserable kind of cash. This my friend, is not abundance. I would be so bewildered and low-key jealous of friends and strangers on the internet who seemed to attract all the money, opportunities, and experiences without even trying very hard…. meanwhile I was over her spinning my wheels, in a constant state of anxiety, and on a speed train heading to burnout city. When I begged the Universe for a sign, for help, for some kind of break….it delivered, but not in the form I was asking for (of course). When the student is ready, the right teachers appear. I’m honored and privileged to be that teacher to so many of you. At this

Aren’t you tired of it all??? Aren’t you exhausted by your own self-doubt? Sick of the negative thoughts in your brain? Way over scrolling and comparing yourself to Polly the Influencer? Annoyed at the fact you keep toe dipping on your dreams instead of just doing that damn thing? I pray you answered YES to these, because this level of frustration and discomfort will push you to stop messin’ around and go ALL IN on your dreams.  In fact, it’s required for anyone who I agree to coach privately. Real change and action only occurs when we are uncomfortable, miserable, and discontent. Think about it, when was the last time you put a ton of time and energy into changing something when you were content? After coaching thousands of you, I can confidently say, those who get the best results and make the most money, are the people who are in pain with where they are at, and say, “enough is enough already,” and go ALL IN regardless of the fear. If you are in pain right now >>> it’s there for a reason….to light a fire u

There are secrets to creating a standout brand. Many experts have shared them, even taught them, but not in the direct way I’m about to explain them to you today. If you want to create a business that makes bank, you must do one of three things: Solve a unique problem Solve a common problem in a unique way Solve a problem to a unique demographic of people. BUT….this alone isn’t enough, no matter how great of a solution you have on your hands. In order to for people to buy your product or service, they need to be aware it exists. Haven’t you seen great products, TV series, and restaurants disappear? You wonder WTF happened “it was so good?” There weren’t enough people consistency consuming, period. The secret to a successful business is to position it to stand out from the crowd. There’s a catch, you must be willing to NOT be for everyone, in order to make it crystal clear who your products and services are perfect for. Here are questions to help get you started: What makes your business different? What ups

Anything that comes after these four words is a lie. I hear these words from you guys multiple times a day… and I used to say and think them dozens of times a week my self. “If I could just…” IF I COULD JUST get my sh*t together. IF I COULD JUST be more motivated. IF I COULD JUST stop procrastinating. IF I COULD JUST be more disciplined. Because then what? Then you would actually follow through with the actions required to get what you want? I really believed that too! If you’re being real honest with yourself, how long have you been saying these “If I could just” statements around your goals? My strong guess is…. It’s been so long you don’t even know. This simple shift helped me get out of this limiting mind trap and dream killer: Replace these statements you say and think with questions. “So, how can I better manage my tendency to procrastinate?” “How can I hold my self accountable to being more disciplined?” “What actions can I take to feel like I have my sh*t more together?” In switching these from statem

The dream-killing sentence that you have said at least once this week… Most people assume that I never think or say this, but if you were behind the scenes of ProjectME and Casa Coach Tiff this last month, you would have heard me say it, scream it, and cry it during multiple meltdowns. “Who am I to do this?” or it may come out in some variety pack like… “Who do I think I am?” “Why would anyone listen to me?” “Why would someone hire me when they could hire __________ (insert someone with more money, followers, magazine covers, testimonials)?” That critical voice in our heads is nasty, and if you grew up with any form of trauma, abuse, or neglect like I did, that voice can rule your life if it isn’t managed on the daily. Many of you may know that recently I made the biggest investment I’ve ever made into ProjectME with Tiffany Carter (maxed out my black Citibank card for the first time BIG!)…This will be a million dollar year for this second company of mine, and to take your dream to the next level requires doi

We’ve been sold a bag of crap when it comes to “Success.” Spending 40-70 hours a week working and saving for the dream house, the dream car, the dream vacations, the designer bags, and the 5 star dinners, thinking this will bring ultimate freedom and therefor happiness. I fell for it too. I didn’t know there was any other way. Plus when you’re a broke-ass, watching those people sitting in first class sipping on their pre-flight mimosas, looks pretty damn joyful, when you could barely afford a seat in the back. There’s a giant catch to this glamorous “success” that no one tells you about…you will be miserable AF in that dream house, driving that dream car, and even on those dream trips, if you are trading your soul for it all. I lived it for years. I had a couple million in the bank, a luxury car, townhouse, and many 5-star first class trips under my belt when I went to kill my self 6.5 years ago. I was burned out, felt empty, had only rare glimpses of joy, and I didn’t see any other way out. The real deal is,

At any given moment you’re either attracting or repelling what you desire. This happens both consciously and subconsciously all damn daylong. I spent a large portion of my life repelling, and had zero clue that I was the common denominator in why I wasn’t getting the promotion, the love, the awards, the cash, or the things I so deeply desired. It wasn’t until my bank account hit 7 figures by 30th birthday (a goal of mine), and I finally felt like all of this manifestation stuff was working in my favor. Until, I lost almost all of it 3 short months later. This shocking devastation was a blessing; it woke up me out of denial, and humbled me enough to where I was willing to look at my role in all of it. When I told my Spiritual Manifestation Coach Tony, he said calmly, “this is wonderful news….now you’re ready to go deeper.” WTF I was pissed!!! It was like he knew all along that something of this magnitude was coming my way to wake my ass up. I later learned, he was woken up in an even more devastating way, by l

The two biggest mistakes I see when it comes to money and business. After coaching thousands of people who come to be after months or even years of nothing working in their businesses, it’s almost always because of these two obvious yet sneaky mistakes. Focusing all 95% of your time, effort, and attention on figuring out how to build your dream business, instead of focusing on repeat action. It is far safer to our egos and nervous systems, to be studying, brainstorming, and “figuring it all out” than is it to do the damn thing. No you aren’t going to get it perfectly right out of the gate, in fact, you won’t ever get it perfect. Your lack of willingness to do it imperfectly, do it before you are ready, do it and learn along the way, it actually delaying your dreams. I’ve seen people stay in this “stuck” and Overwhelm Spin Cycle (as I call it) for years….all because that is more comfortable than putting your offers out there and risking it being a total flop, people hating it, and having to eat humble pie. 

Having a profitable personal brand isn’t about pretty pictures or a perfect niche. There is a proven marketing strategy at work behind every single successful personal brand you see online, from influencers, to motivational gurus, to top medical specialists, and podcasters like my self. My point is, it didn’t just happen; it wasn’t just luck, or one viral moment. Here’s the interesting thing: I could customize a business strategy for 100 different personal brands, (something I’m well known for doing) and teach them all of my tricks of the trade….but only a handful of that hundred will end up with millionaire status. What sets those personal brands apart from the rest? The founder, the “person” behind the brand, shows up regardless for as long as it takes, with unwavering dedication and passion for what they do, and who they serve. The founder is humble and aware they can’t build it alone. So they happily hire graphic artists, editors, coaches, an assistant, long before they have all of the funds to comfortab

Saying “Goodbye” is never easy, at least not to anything we once cared about. Like you, I’ve said “goodbye” to many people, places, things, jobs, habits, beliefs, behaviors, and that once perfectly ripe avocado that turned rotten in 2 hours (why does this happen?!!!). Doing the damn thing is far easier than all of the anguish, stress, over-thinking, guilt, pressure, and shame we put ourselves through trying to decide if it’s the right thing to do, and if so, what is the right time and how do we do it? SO EXHAUSTING! Be straight with me, have you ever really regretting saying “goodbye” to anything that was sucking the life out of you? Of course not, we only regret that didn’t do it sooner. Some of you are in that exhausting “what should I do” spot right now, and today you are going to get clear on what you need to do. Listen to this powerful story on today’s podcast about a successful network marketer, Jill Herman, who was forced to say goodbye to her highly profitable team she built while working full time as

“I know this is exactly the way it’s suppose to be for the moment.” This sentence has gotten me out of dozens of meltdowns. It’s not the words that make this affirmation work, it’s the fact they represent a full surrendering of the current circumstances. So right now your life feels like one GIANT sh!t show? Many days you hold it together, some days are even good, and the rest are reserved for your major meltdowns. How do I know? This is how real life is for people who’ve been through some real heavy stuff; people who want more out of life; people who are highly empathic and feel the world’s pain; people like you who are emotionally present and actually give AF. The gift and the burden of actually giving AF…we care so much about so many things, and this is why it becomes all too much sometimes. Haven’t you noticed that people who don’t care about much are rarely upset or can’t sleep? Don’t know about you, but February and March has been intense for me. Many days have either started or ended in total Tiff-styl

This is fastest way to kill your dreams…many of you are doing it right now! You saw this today at just the right time because Universe is giving you a giant wake up call sis. I need to let you in on a little secret, none of really know what we are doing all the time, even those of us who have achieved high levels of success. We certainly didn’t know WTF we were doing when we got started, and it was terrifying…there were a ton of mistakes, mishaps, and disappointments….but we kept showing up REGARDLESS of how we were feeling. Self-doubt is what has most of you stuck today. Stuck in a job that is no longer fulfilling you, or never did. Stuck in your business, and can’t seem to gain any consistent momentum. Stuck with ideas and dreams for your business, and not able to get yourself into any consistent action. Sound familiar? It’s not that I don’t have many moments of self-doubt and “WTF am I even doing?” days, I’m equally as human and crazy-brained as you fools. The difference is, I don’t allow my self to lean i

Making money is really just a game, it a matter of learning how to play it well. I didn’t always see money this way, which is why I had to work so damn hard to make any. Within 3 months of seeing my bank account hit $1,000,000 I lost almost all of it. After I stopped feeling angry and sorry for my self, I was determined to never allow that to happen again, and to make it all back many times over. The deal I made with the Universe is once I made it back, I would teach other women how to make big money….and take the mystery out of it all. Here’s the tea…I know dozens of multi-millionaires, we all have a few things in common when it comes to cash: Millionaires see making money as a game, and we spend our time getting better and better at playing. Millionaires know the exact value of their time, and we are incredibly intentional with everything we do (even when it looks like we aren’t) Millionaires do whatever it takes to gain time. We leverage it, we replicate it, and we streamline it. As time = money. Milliona

If you try to help everyone you will end up helping no one. The most common mistake I see business owners making online is they aren’t 100% laser focused on speaking to one specific person, so their content is all over the place and so are their offerings. This mistake comes from a beautiful place. You don’t want to leave anyone out. You want to help the most people possible. So to really niche down on your ideal client feels counter-intuitive. You don’t want to just market to women because you can help male clients too, or you don’t want to women who want to lose their muffin-top as you can help them with their gut health too! Here’s the issue…. we are getting bombarded with information from all directions all day long. In fact, we consume on average 100,000 words per day. So if you want to  get that scroll-stopping attention, you MUST be addressing someone’s specific perceived issues and the emotions around them, or it simply won’t connect. Otherwise it will cost you a ton of time, energy, money and stress

What is blocking your success? It’s a simple yet complicated answer. Everyone self-sabotages. I don’t care how much personal development work you’ve done, 8000 hours of therapy, or you’ve been blessed by a shaman…if you are human, you have self-sabotaging behaviors and habits. I coach both new entrepreneurs making $0-10K a month in their business, and highly established entrepreneurs looking to scale into the millions…. regardless of their background, race, sex, trauma, education or environment…I always uncover a subconscious self-sabotaging behavior they had ZERO awareness they were doing on repeat. We all have those limiting habits that we hate about ourselves, like procrastination (my big one), getting overwhelmed and then checking out and doing nothing all day, or loading your to-do list for the weekend and never accomplishing any of it. If those aren’t managed, they will obviously sabotage your success. The ones that are REALLY blocking you from maximum abundance, are the behaviors that you are unaware o