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According to a recent study 60% of adults regret not pursuing their dreams. (Source: zety, 2020) That means 6 out of 10 of you reading this will end up either quitting on your dreams, or never try in the first place! This is exactly why I entered the business coaching world four years ago, because I know what’s it feels like to put off pursuing a dream, spending your time just trying to get through each day instead of living it, going to bed exhausted and dreading the next day. If you know you want something different than what you are currently experiencing, yet you are not doing everything in your power to change it…you’ve got yourself in a defeated low vibrational rut, and only you can make the decision that it’s time to dig out of it.  I have a feeling you need to heard this today: Your dreams aren’t stupid, silly or crazy…they are in your heart for a bigger reason; otherwise the desire and ideas wouldn’t exist in the first place.  You don’t need to know everything to start, you simply have to be willing

The millionaire success secret no one ever talks about.  If you witnessed the average day here at ProjectME headquarters, you would be surprised at what this 7-figure business looks like behind the scenes.  Me unshowered…wearing a bathrobe, using the counter as a desk, dreading most of the things on my to do list, having a crap ton of Zoom meetings, wishing I could clone my self, all while my Business Manager hounds me for tax stuff and investor documents. Sexy huh?! But all of this is by choice. I don’t have to do any of this work…But if I want the BIG cash, the luxury lifestyle I love, the freedom and the options that success buys…then I’ve got to be willing to show up just as hard and grateful for all of the mundane and long days, as I do the extra fun and glamorous days.  You have to get honest with yourself and ask the question, “do I want this dream life badly enough to do all of the things, especially on the days where I don’t feel like it?” Millionaires have the 7 and 8 figures in their multiple bank

I started feeling like a FRAUD. 6 months after I started this brand and podcast (only 3.5 years ago), I wanted to quit…it felt like all I was doing was pouring my heart, soul, energy and time into creating, and NO ONE was listening, watching, or engaging.  Here I already owned a multiple 7-figure business, was a highly sought after speaker and sales trainer, plus a professionally trained broadcaster…and no one seemed interested in a damn thing I had to say under my business coaching brand. WTF?!!!! I would get 4 people on my Instagram lives, and 2 were 90 Day Fiancé’s. My podcast only had a total of 5,000 downloads and a handful of reviews that I felt like I had to beg people to write. On a good day I would wake up to two new DMs, one would be someone trying to get me to buy followers, and the other would be from someone I knew.  Here I was teaching people about starting and scaling a business, and I was failing at it. “What A Fuc*ing Fraud you are Tiffany!!!!”  If you know me, the core principal I live by

The most dangerous word you keep using!!! I still catch my self at least once a week (and that’s on a good week) saying this word out loud or in my thoughts…. but, I had to train my self to even notice it, catch it, and reverse it. The DANGER word is “when.” I know, not what you thought I was going to say. It’s the most cunning, sneaky, and manipulative of words that our egos and inner bully’s use to get us to slam on the breaks of going after something new and different. “When my kids get settled into a groove for the school year I will…” “When I figure out my niche, then I will start posting regularly.” “When I start making more money, I can hire a business coach to help me.” “On Friday when I have more time, I will get focused and…..” “When Tiffany does her next in person Mastermind I will for sure attend.” (which BTW I have no idea if I will be doing another one ever!) Any of these sounds familiar??? In the moment, these thoughts sound legit and even reasonable, which is why I say this is one of the sneak

“Where do I even start?” 14 years ago, I said this same exact thing to a longtime client of mine in the pharmaceutical industry, right after he suggested I stop making millions for the company I was working for, and start making that money for my self. His reply…”by taking one action at a time.” I didn’t even know which actions to take first, given I’d never started a business before…. so I began by making a list of what I would need in order to get clients to pay me for my skill set. We often overcomplicate EVERYTHING when we are uncomfortable and scared. This paralyzes many people to the point where they keep putting off starting their dream business, and sit in Stuckland USA… sometimes forever. You may be in that spot right now, and hating it.  The fear of building something of your own is so unfamiliar; it is actually more comfortable for you to stay feeling unfulfilled and dissatisfied with your life.  Until you’ve had enough and are really sick of your current circumstances and financial status, you lik

 If you’re looking for the short cut, you will end up at a dead end. We’ve all done it many times, bought the product that helped hundreds of people lose weight, the $49 course that said it would tell you all of the secrets to growing a massive Instagram following, and then say to ourselves, “ugh that was such a waste of money.” The reason marketers come at you with the short cuts and the easy way to accomplish your goals is by nature, humans are lazy, and we want fast, cheap, and easy. You can’t create great wealth by taking cheap actions. Sadly all of these shortcuts you are trying to take are actually delaying you from making the money you want. I’m writing this to you today, to shock you back to reality. Anyone who’s alluding to or making claims that they build a highly profitable business with little effort, only working when they generally felt like it, IS NOT TELLING YOU THE FULL STORY. Of course the fantasy land part of our brains wants to buy into this illusion that you can simply post when you feel

How many times have you said this over a glass of wine… “I wish I could ______” “Someday I want to ____” Then years pass by and that someday never manifests…even worse, that someday can turn into one of the biggest regrets of your life. It took me ten years to start ProjectME with Tiffany Carter, time I will never get back. I wasted years of my precious life feeling unfulfilled, overworked, and uninspired…I knew my dream was, but didn’t make any real plans to bring it to life. Nothing you desire is going to magically manifest without you putting in consistent and deliberate effort. Most of us get stuck not on what we want, but on how to get it.  “Where do I even begin?”  You begin by declaring that you are 100% committed to you goal starting today.  You begin by committing to do what it takes to bring that goal to life.  You begin by committing to not quit on your vision no matter what, even when the shiz gets real hard (cuz it will).  Imagine your dream is to move to Italy, but you have a 6 year old, a Virgo

You can’t make millions with a broke mindset. If only someone has drilled this into my head earlier in life. So now one of my jobs is to drill it into yours, so you can have financial success much easier and faster than I did. Sadly, 9 out of 10 of you reading this, will go “yeh yeh yeh I know mindset work is important, I’ll focus on that after I bring in some cash.”  I said the same thing. This is why I say doing mindset work is like stretching at the gym, you know it’s important but don’t realize how vital it is until you pay a major price for not doing it. Going from making 17k a year to being a multi-millionaire is wild, and the path here was messy AF. You see I had to lose almost everything more than once to finally prioritize uncovering my poverty money beliefs, and cement in an abundance mindset. NOT EASY, NOT FUN, AND OFTEN TEDIOUS WORK. You will be “sold” a bag of crap online that you can reframe your thinking in 5 days, or shift all of your beliefs by taking this one course…while it’s often a great

“You’re always working Tiffany!!” Every single acquaintance, friend, and lover I’ve ever met has said some of form of this to me, except the one person who I modeled my workaholism after. We pick up beliefs and behaviors about money and success without even realizing it. I would get angry as hell when people would complain about how much I worked, “if they only knew….” “They don’t get it, they don’t have the same goals as me” “Then you can pay my bills!!” Never did I once come to the realization that maybe I was working my self into an unhealthy state, because if I had, then I would have to face what I was using work to avoid….my deeply buried pain. Some people use drugs numb and avoid pain, some shopping, some food, for me I used work and exercise. For the record, any form of addiction will eventually kill you, some faster than others. I literally almost worked my self to death. I learned from my mom, who was a female marketing pioneer in the consumer packaged goods world, with clients like Coca Cola and Kra

I make a least 10k a week from Instagram Stories alone, and so can you. Before your brain starts saying, “Well she is making that because she has all of those followers and I only have a small audience...” hear me out. This account was started with three followers about four years ago (and one was my nail guy). I didn’t start using paid ads for this brand until I was well past the 250k/year mark. There were a lot of mistakes I made, and a solid share of wins…. everything of course took way longer than my impatient ass was comfortable with. There are two parts to making money from your Instagram stories: Get people viewing them, and keep them coming back for more. Convert those viewers into customers who are excited to pay you. First we need to clear up some mistakes you’re making in your Stories that are killing your views: Stop posting random stuff FMA (From Your Ass) that you Ideal Clients don’t care about. Learn what they want from you and deliver it. Would you be visually stimulated and intrigued by yo

Ask for what you want, and act as though you are going to get it. Most of us can get the point where we will at least ask the Universe or God for what we want, but then for about 90% of you it goes to sh*t soon after the ask. Our egos want to see immediate evidence that our manifestations are happening in our desired speedy timeframe, and then when we don’t, we lose hope and faith. This is the opposite of how the Law of Attraction works, which is why it really hasn’t been working super well for you. To attract what you desire into you life, FAITH IS REQUIRED. When nothing feels like it’s working, STAY IN FAITH THAT IT IS. When everything is taking way longer than you could have imagined, STAY IN FAITH THAT THE TIMING WILL BE PERFECT. When you are seeing evidence that it isn’t possible, STAY IN FAITH AND REFOCUS ON EVIENCE THAT IT IS POSSIBLE.  You have three main jobs when it comes to attracting what you want: Clearly ask the Universe for what you desire, and be as specific as possible. Do whatever it takes

When you’re constantly being called “a spoiled brat” as a child just for having regular kid needs, it changes you. I did my best as an only child to be a good girl, and stay as quite as possible. The price to pay for upsetting my sometimes single and always working Mom was not one I wanted to pay. So it would always feel like a gut-punch when she would call me a “spoiled brat,” as I knew I didn’t do anything wrong…other than say I was hungry and ask, “what’s for dinner?” After being called this enough times, I started to believe it…and this belief is still slightly there today, even after 15 plus years of doing deep healing and personal development work. When we believe something, whether it’s a new belief or one carried over from childhood, we end up making decisions out of that space, attracting people and experiences from that energy; this typically happens without us even realizing it. Starting a personal brand brought up a ton of crap for me, it still does. Truly I feel one of the reasons it took me ten

Fu*k it…I’m doing it!!! The exact words I said almost 4 years ago when I FINALLY decided to go 100% ALL IN on my dream business and life. Notice I used the word “decided,” as nothing was holding me back other than the lack of me making the decision to go for it.   Did I feel ready? Hell no  Was I terrified? Hell yes Did I 100% know what I was doing? Hell no, and I still don’t many days.    Waiting until the “right time,” or until I had explosive energy and motivation, is a huge reason why it took me TEN YEARS to pursue my dream after having the clear idea and vision. Four years ago, not being fully recovered from a chronic illness, being at the heaviest weight in my life, filled with fear that I would waste my time, energy and money if this didn’t work out….I decided to start and give it one full year of ALL IN effort. I declared to the Universe that I would do whatever it took, as long as it didn’t negatively impact my mental or physical health.    So even when I doubted my self Even when it felt crazy scary

Top 7 Things that will stop you from reaching your goals.  Warning!! Many of these may be hard to hear…take notice if you start feeling defensive, if your body or breathing gets tense.  This is a sure sign we are hitting the real truth behind why you’re not hitting your goals.  You desire the outcome, but aren’t willing to do the boring, tedious, and hard stuff it takes to get there. You care too much about what others will think of you. Worried they will judge you for this BIG dream or yours, or fear looking like a fool while your learning something new.  You are seeing your mistakes and fails as signs “this isn’t working out,” instead of using them as intel for improvement. It feels easier for you to give up, quit, and avoid, instead of showing up when things get real tough and uncomfortable.  You have crap discipline habits. Therefor, you have your life structured where it’s easy to put things off and not follow thru. Serious accountability is needed for everyone who is going after major goals.  You get e

“They could just hire someone who’s wealthier than me, or one of these Insta-famous people with a ton of followers, so why would they pay me?” “Who is the hell do I think I am to be doing this? What will my former colleagues and classmates think?” THESE thoughts are why it took me 10 years to start ProjectME with Tiffany Carter!!! Yup I had the idea, the concept, the logo sketches, and even the cash to start it…BUT I convinced my self that I needed to have all of the puzzle pieces together in order to officially start.  That was a lie that was easier for me to swallow than the deeper truth, which was…I was terrified of failing at my dream, at my divine calling, cuz then what? Then why am I here?  It’s not about you being “so busy” that you don’t have the time to start. It’s not that you don’t have the money. We all will get crazy resourceful when we know something will change our lives for the better. It’s not about you not having the right computer or phone (these were my last two crazy excuses I used to del

Insider Entrepreneur Secret… …No entrepreneur, no matter if they are a multi-millionaire or a billionaire, know WTF they are doing when they start something new. When you look at people’s success, it can be hard for our minds to process that this successful business owner feels the same as you many times a month…but I am one of those people, and I’m telling you it’s true. The great news, knowing what you are doing 100% of the time isn’t a requirement for building a wildly profitable business.  Here IS what’s required: > Tenacity, determination, and resourcefulness to make your business a success. You are willing to always find a way.  > A proven market need for your products or services. This is number one reason for business failure at 42% (CBInsights)  > An eagerness to invest back into your business, to set it up for consistent growth. Making BIG money also costs money…don’t play cheap with your dreams.  > Humility and a heaping dose of patience. There is nothing that will bring out all of your childhood w

“Well I don’t want to look stupid.” This exact line is said to me at least 5 times a week by clients…usually right after I ask them why they aren’t being consistent with showing up on video. Maybe for you videos aren’t the issue, maybe it’s creating a course, doing a presentation, or being on a podcast… In our human AF and oftentimes-hateful society, most of us have been made fun of, gossiped about, or even bullied in childhood, and it flippin’ hurts. Wanna know something crazy?  Even though I was severely bullied in middle school and high school (well, until I started to beat people up and stand up for my self), NO ONE was ever more mean to me than my self.  The person who is ragging on you the most, puts you down the most, is verbally abusive, and points out your flaws is…YOU !! 98% of people are too busy being beating themselves up or dealing with their own crap, to even think about how you stumbled over your words on a podcast, notice a typo in an email, or even care that no one commented on your last 3 p

If your business is in a slump, we’re going to reignite it today.  Did you know, for many industries and niches that July and August are notoriously the slowest months of the year? Slow doesn’t need to equal zero dinero, so don’t let your ego use this as an excuse to blow off the rest of the summer. In fact, I want my clients to launch in August. When you zig and everyone else is zagging, you will make money!! (As long as you do it strategically). Here’s how to set yourself up for a successful August launch: Make your offer timely. What does your ideal client struggle with most during summer months? What are they the most concerned about right now? Build major hype for your launch. Tease it, build anticipation for it, and show your sincere excitement. The more enthusiastic you are the more excited they will be to buy. Show ‘em don’t just tell ‘em. Visually show in your content the desired life, outcome, and results that your offer can help create. This social proof shows your IC the life they want is possibl

The Refrigerator Theory that will change your life. I’m willing to share an embarrassing story so you don’t fall into this insane limiting trap. It all started with a $4000 flat panel refrigerator…one of many purchases for the new house Mike and I bought together. I’ve calculated it, and this fridge has now cost us >> $57,000 !!! And we still own it!!!  After working perfectly for 2 years, the ice machine stopped working (of course right after the warrantee was up) and it would get completely frozen over. Between Mike and I, we have both spent hours and hours or time researching how to fix it, trying to fix, complaining about it, and even going and buying ice. All of this time (not including aggravation) based on both of our current rates in our respective fields adds up to 57k. This type of short sided, money-stubborn thinking has cost me a small fortune in my life and business. If all of that time we wasted was spent on income generating activities, our entire mega luxury remodel we are doing would be paid

“Stop thinking it through, and feel it through.” We think that we have to figure it all out, wait until we are ready, make sure we don’t do it wrong and make an ass of ourselves….not only is this false, but it’s the opposite of a success strategy.  This Overwhelmed! Overthinking! Overdoing! mindset is the number one cause of entrepreneurs quitting. I used to be one these people, until I ran my self into the ground burning out my entire adrenal and immune system 6 years ago. To stay alive and get healthy I was forced to learn and implement an entirely new operating system, both in my mind and my business. If you are feel run down, exhausted, and it feels like you can’t catch your breath…your operating system isn’t in alignment with your Human Design Chart >>> basically who you are at core. Let’s say you are an introvert and need lots of down time, but your business model has you “on” all the time, constantly creating and doing. This is not a good set up for you. Whether you are familiar with your Human Design