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I F’ing LOVE complaining, in fact, it’s a necessary part of my manifestation process.  Every day I hear someone make an apology after they vent or complain about something that’s upsetting them. My response is always the same… “Please complain, love, you need to get it out…you are allowed to have all of your feelings.” Most of us were taught that complaining is BAD. That makes you a negative person, ungrateful, and even a downer. I was strictly NOT ALLOWED to utter anything that could be taken as a complaint growing up (or my mom would verbally abuse me and then ignore me as a form of punishment), and in turn, I never felt fully heard or understood.  Then as an adult, I would judge myself harshly and even beat myself up for being “too negative.” (taking over the “punishing” my mom did to me) Being pleasant and Ms. Positive all the time is a form of denial and dissociation. When I come across someone like this, I know they are in a deep amount of pain with decades of suppressed emotions.  Babies cry. Toddlers