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A lesson for my fellow feelers, healers and highly-sensitives: You will encounter many people who are so shut down emotionally that your loving and expressive spirit is too much for them. These people may even tell you that you are “too sensitive,” “too much,” “so emotional,” or “overly expressive.” I’ve been called all of these things many times by the people I love, so much that I believed this was a major inherit flaw of mine. Just because someone says or feels that you are too much, doesn’t mean that anything is wrong with you.   This simply means your ability to be vulnerable, open, and intimate scares them, as they haven’t done enough healing yet to do the same. They may even resent you for it, as they would love to FEEL things on your level, but they can’t access it and don’t know why or how. You willingness and ability to feel others truth and pain is a beautiful gift. Just as it will attract some people it will equally repel some people. That’s OK. They aren’t ready for you yet, and it’s not your job