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There’s nothing that turns me off more than when someone does this… When anyone tells me they’re going to do something or stop doing something, making major promises, and then NOTHING ever happens, as though it was never discussed in the first place.  I call this “Promise Ghosting,” many psychologists would call it gaslighting.  Even if someone made a promise and chose not to follow through (as it is a choice), but at least owned it by acknowledging it and then following through…I can work with that all day long.  But repeat promises, apologies and zero follow through…that is a fast track to pushing me out of your life. Broken promises = LYING.  Of course we need to make exceptions and allowances are we are all human, but if you are dealing with someone where this is a standard operating behavior, you must save yourself and set new boundaries or walk away.  Here’s the giant mind F that happened to me this weekend.  Usually when something really pisses us off, it’s because there’s something deeper we need to t