Marriage After God

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we discuss God’s holiness, the process of Him refining us, and how marriage provides the context for Him to continue that sanctification in our lives. We share how difficult seasons often reveal what’s hidden beneath the surface—exposing impurities, refining character, and drawing us closer to God. Through the work of the Holy Spirit, husbands and wives can experience deep personal growth, greater unity, and more authentic love. We hope this episode is a reminder of the importance of forgiveness, reconciliation, and recognizing how God can use trials to strengthen and mature a marriage over time.In this episode–Trials in marriage reveal what lies beneath the surface.Just as fire brings impurities of gold to the top, challenges expose the sin in our hearts.The Holy Spirit is faithful to refine us and scrape away what doesn’t belong.We are better today than we were years ago.We’ve become quicker to forgive and quicker to reconcile.Our love grows deeper with each passing

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the meaning and significance of reconciliation in marriage. We discuss how sin creates distance in relationships and how forgiveness and reconciliation work together to restore unity and intimacy. Through biblical insights, practical encouragement, and personal experiences we hope to help couples pursue healing, trust, and oneness in their marriage.In this episode–Reconciliation is essential for unity and intimacy in marriage.Understanding what reconciliation truly means helps us apply it in our relationships.Sin creates relational separation that must be addressed with humility and truth.Forgiveness is necessary for reconciliation, but forgiveness alone doesn’t always restore closeness.God calls believers to be ambassadors of reconciliation in their marriages.Open and honest communication is key to rebuilding trust.Reconciliation takes time and intentional effort, especially after deep hurt.God’s love empowers us to forgive, restore, and pursue unity.A thri

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore what it truly means to love sacrificially within marriage. We discuss how genuine love mirrors the love of Christ—selfless, patient, and enduring—and how the Holy Spirit empowers couples to live this out daily. We remind listeners the fruits of the Spirit as essential qualities that nurture a healthy, grace-filled relationship. When both husband and wife surrender to God’s Spirit, your marriage can be a powerful reflection of the gospel.In this episode–Sacrificial love is essential in marriage.Belief in God strengthens our ability to love sacrificially.The Holy Spirit empowers couples to love beyond themselves.Initiating love requires intentionality and commitment.Faith deepens connection and unity in marriage.Marriage should reflect God’s selfless love.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Suppor

Today on the podcast, Aaron talks with Christin Rosa, who shares her powerful journey of faith through marriage, infertility, and motherhood. Christin opens up about the cultural differences in her marriage, the challenges of infertility, and the prenatal struggles she faced with her son, Nate. Through prayer, courage, and unwavering faith, she and her husband learned to advocate for life and trust in God’s plan. Christin also shares how her experiences inspired her to write Saving Hope, a testimony of God’s goodness and the healing that comes from walking through trials with Him.In this episode–Christin Rosa’s inspiring journey of faith and family.Navigating marriage dynamics can be challenging yet deeply rewarding.Infertility often becomes a season of deeper reliance on God.Cultural differences shape the dynamics of marriage and parenting.Community support is vital during times of hardship.Facing prenatal challenges requires faith, courage, and trust in God.Advocating for life reflects the sanctity of God’s

In this episode, we remind couples that marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts. We explore what it means to see your spouse as a blessing, not a burden, and how gratitude can transform your perspective. Join us as we discuss the power of forgiveness, intentional communication, and daily appreciation in cultivating a thriving marriage that reflects God’s grace and love.In this episode–Your spouse is a gift from GodMarriage is designed to be a blessing, not a burdenGratitude changes how we see and treat our spouseForgiveness restores connection and peaceSincere gifts—whether words, actions, or time—build intimacy“Two are better than one” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)Life and marriage are gifts to cherish dailyHealthy communication expresses appreciation clearlySeeing your spouse through God’s eyes strengthens your relationshipReflecting God’s grace is at the heart of a marriage after GodJoin in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriag

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith talks with Heath Hardesty, a pastor, husband, and father who shares his journey from plumbing to ministry. Heath discusses what it means to live an integrated faith—where every part of life, from family to work, reflects a relationship with Jesus.They explore apprenticeship to Christ as a daily practice of gentleness, prayer, and presence, and the importance of lament and joy in the Christian life. Heath’s book All Things Together invites believers to weave faith through every aspect of their marriages, families, and communities.TakeawaysHeath Hardesty shares his journey from plumbing to pastoring.Faith should shape every area of life, not just Sundays.Apprenticeship to Jesus is about living what we believe.Gentleness, prayer, and presence strengthen marriage and family.All Things Together explores a whole-life approach to faith.Connect with Heath Hardesty:https://www.heathhardesty.org/All Things Together: https://a.co/d/9vVNtUEFollow Marriage Aft

In this episode of the Marriage After God Podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith explore the biblical design for marriage and the distinct yet complementary roles of husbands and wives. They discuss how servant leadership mirrors Christ’s example and how companionship plays a vital role in building a thriving, Christ-centered relationship.Aaron unpacks what it means for husbands to lead through service and humility, following the example of Jesus, while Jennifer encourages wives to support, encourage, and pray for their husbands. TakeawaysGod granted man the role of the wife as a helper.Husbands are called to lead as Christ leads the Church.Servant leadership means leading by example, not by force.Wives are encouraged to support and uplift their husbands.Companionship is essential for a thriving marriage.Effective communication fosters trust and understanding.Quality time together strengthens intimacy and connection.Prayer is vital for both spouses in fulfilling their roles.Marriage is a reflection of God’s covena

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith sits down with Bobby Jamieson, a pastor, author, and church planter based in Washington, D.C. Bobby shares his experiences in ministry and family life, offering biblical wisdom drawn from the book of Ecclesiastes. Together, they explore what it means to find purpose and joy amid the challenges of parenting, leadership, and life in a busy culture. Bobby unpacks the themes of contentment, gratitude, and self-sacrifice, showing how Ecclesiastes points us toward lasting fulfillment in God rather than the fleeting pursuits of success or pleasure. TakeawaysPrayer is foundational in parenting and spiritual leadership.Raising teenagers requires patience, empathy, and emotional presence.True ministry and family life require continual self-sacrifice.Ecclesiastes offers timeless wisdom for those seeking meaning in modern life.Lasting contentment comes from accepting and embracing one’s lot in life as a gift from God.Connect with Bobby Jamieson:Everything Is

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith explore the question, “Did God design marriage?” Together, they reflect on the intentionality behind marriage, the unique relationship between men and women, and the biblical foundation that defines this sacred covenant. They emphasize how love and respect work hand in hand within marriage and how obedience to God’s Word should guide our actions—regardless of our spouse’s response.The discussion highlights that marriage is not a random arrangement but a purposeful reflection of God’s image and His relationship with the Church. They also share how the Holy Spirit empowers couples to walk in unity and to embrace growth through challenges. They encourage listeners to see marriage as a divine invitation to reflect Christ’s love, celebrate differences, and pursue God together.TakeawaysMarriage is designed by God with intentionality.The Bible opens with the concept of marriage.Marriage is a unique identifier of humanity.Men have a deep need

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith sits down with Trevin Wax and Thomas West to discuss their new book, The Gospel Way Catechism. Together, they explore the modern challenges facing the church and families as cultural narratives compete with biblical truth. The conversation highlights the importance of discipleship within the home, the role of parents in shaping their children’s faith, and how the Gospel Way Catechism serves as a practical resource for teaching and defending the faith. They also discuss the need for a renewed focus on community, truth, and church revitalization in a culture marked by individualism and confusion.TakeawaysThe Gospel Way Catechism equips believers to articulate biblical truth clearly.Cultural narratives often conflict with God’s design for faith and family.Parents play a vital role in spiritual formation and discipleship.The Church must be intentional about countering secular ideologies with truth.Individualism can isolate believers from the community

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer unpack the purpose of marriage as God designed it. Together, they explore how every couple is uniquely created in His image and called to reflect His love and unity through their relationship. Drawing from Ephesians 5, they discuss how marriage mirrors Christ’s love for the Church, emphasizing forgiveness, oneness, and devotion to God’s greater mission.Key Takeaways:Purpose is an innate human desire.We are created in God’s image to reflect His character and love.Marriage is not random—it has divine intention and design.Unity in marriage enhances each person’s individual purpose.Ephesians 5 reveals the sacred mystery of marriage.Marriage reflects Christ’s love for the Church.Forgiveness is foundational in maintaining a godly marriage.Our marriages are meant to serve God and fulfill His purposes.A faithful marriage influences future generations for God’s glory.A marriage after God is a continual journey of knowing Him more deeply.

In this episode, Aaron Smith interviews Roy Wooten of the Crucible Project, a ministry helping men heal, grow, and build meaningful community. Roy is also a husband of 37 years, and a grandfather. Roy shares his journey of marriage, personal transformation, and the lessons he’s learned about communication, vulnerability, and confession.  Together, he and Aaron discuss the power of communication, vulnerability, and confession in building a healthy relationship. Roy opens up about emotional triggers, the importance of creating safe spaces, and how men can find healing and transformation through community and grace.Key Takeaways:Marriage is a journey filled with both challenges and joy.Communication and emotional awareness strengthen connection.Vulnerability and confession bring healing and growth.Men need safe spaces to process and avoid isolation.The Crucible Project offers community and transformation.Grace and redemption pave the way for authentic living.Connect with Roy Wooten:Website: https://thecruciblepr

We are so excited to announce something new for the Marriage After God podcast! Over the next 30 weeks, we’ll be walking through our very first devotionals—Husband After God and Wife After God.This series is designed to help you and your spouse:Draw closer to God togetherStrengthen your relationship through Scripture and prayerEngage in honest conversations about marriage and faithDiscover God’s purpose for your marriageEven if you don’t have a copy of the devotionals, you can still follow along with us each week. But we strongly encourage you to grab the books so you can write notes, answer the discussion questions, and pray through them with your spouse.

In this episode, we sit down with Joby Martin to talk about marriage, parenting, and the meaning of manhood in today’s culture. Joby unpacks how faith must be the foundation of every strong relationship and why mutual submission to Christ is key to a thriving marriage. We also dive into the importance of mentorship, intergenerational relationships, and community support for personal and spiritual growth. Joby challenges men to redefine greatness through service and love and to take responsibility in their families and communities. Most importantly, he reminds us of the redeeming power of the blood of Jesus and the fresh start He offers to all.TakeawaysFaith must be the foundation of a strong marriage.A Christ-centered marriage thrives through mutual submission.Parenting calls for both freedom and guidance.True manhood is defined by serving others, not by consumerism.Intergenerational relationships provide wisdom and growth.Mentorship from older, wiser men is essential.Men are called to take responsibility in

The Heart of Discipleship In HomeschoolingIn this episode, Aaron sits down with David and Leslie Nunnery to talk about their journey into homeschooling and the lessons they’ve learned along the way. They share how homeschooling is about so much more than academics—it’s about relationships, discipleship, and intentionally aligning family priorities. Together they discuss overcoming doubts, navigating challenges, and using daily life as a natural opportunity for discipleship.Takeaways:Homeschooling is not just about education; it's about relationships.Discipleship should be the focus of homeschooling.Parents are the primary disciplers of their children.Building a strong family culture is essential for effective homeschooling.Daily life provides natural opportunities for discipleship.It's important to align family goals and priorities.Homeschooling can be a tool for deeper family connections.Overcoming the "enough" question is crucial for new homeschoolers.Creating a habit of family devotions fos

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith reflect on their recent family camping trip and the unexpected challenges that came with it. They share how music, creativity, and prayer became sources of encouragement and connection during the experience. Together, they discuss the importance of recovery days, facing fears, and adopting the “gap and gains” mentality as tools for spiritual and relational growth. Through personal stories and honest reflection, Aaron and Jennifer encourage couples to embrace challenges as opportunities to grow closer to God and to each other.TakeawaysThe journey of marriage is filled with ups and downs.Music can be a powerful tool for connection and inspiration.Creativity in family life can foster deeper relationships.Facing challenges together strengthens the bond between partners.Spiritual growth often occurs during difficult times.The “gap and gains” mentality can shift our perspective on progress.Recovery days are essential for maintaining balance

Aaron Smith sits down with Gary Thomas, bestselling author and teaching pastor, to talk about his journey into marriage ministry and the role of the local church in our spiritual growth. They discuss the dangers of entitlement, the lies that keep us from intimacy with God, and the importance of multi-generational ministry. Gary reminds us that gratitude and grace are key to cultivating joy and compassion in our walk with Christ.Key TakeawaysThe local church is essential for community and growth.Entitlement robs us of gratitude and joy.Struggles with sin are expected in the Christian life.Spiritual adventure keeps our faith vibrant.Recognizing our sin helps us have compassion toward others.The church should be a place of healing and support.Gratitude for God’s grace leads to a joyful life.Connect with Gary Thomas:Website: https://garythomas.com/Books: https://garythomas.com/books/Instagram: @garythomasbooksFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInsta

In this episode, Aaron Smith sits down with Dr. Juli Slattery to explore sexuality from a Christian perspective. Together, they discuss how cultural shifts have shaped our understanding of marriage and sexuality, the growing tension between psychology and faith, and why open, biblical conversations are vital for families today. Dr. Slattery shares how surrendering our sexuality to God, addressing shame, and grounding ourselves in truth are key to experiencing healing and intimacy. This conversation also highlights the role of parents in guiding their children with wisdom and truth in the face of cultural pressures.Key TakeawaysSexuality is a critical topic for Christians today.Cultural shifts have changed perceptions of marriage and sexuality.Many Christians wrestle with how psychology integrates with faith.The purpose of sexuality has shifted toward self-fulfillment rather than God’s design.Parents must engage in open, honest conversations with their children about sexuality.Surrendering sexuality to God inv

In this episode, Aaron Smith sits down with author Jackie Avilés, to share her powerful story of walking through a terminal cancer diagnosis. Jackie Avilés is widely known as the “Internet’s Hope Coach.” She imparts hope grounded in biblical truth—offering Scripture-based encouragement and practical strategies to help people move from despair into hope-filled living. In today’s episode, Jackie opens up about how her faith in God sustained her through suffering, the importance of prayer, and what it means to lament well in times of pain.Key Takeaways:Jackie shares her personal journey of being diagnosed with stage four terminal metastatic breast cancerHow faith and prayer can carry usr through life’s toughest challengesThe significance of lament and finding hope in God during seasons of sufferingThe impact of trials on marriage and family relationshipsEncouragement for couples to lean on God’s promises and find strength in weaknessBe encouraged as Jackie reminds us that even when we feel pressed, we are not c