Double X Gabfest

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, June, Marcia, and Nichole discuss the Harvey Weinstein trial verdict. Then, they dive into the reality show Love Is Blind. Finally, the panel interviews artist Tatyana Fazlalizadeh about her book Stop Telling Women to Smile. In Slate Plus: Is it sexist to call woman in the workplace “helpful”?Other items discussed on the show: “The Weinstein Verdict Is Both a Victory and a Disappointment,” by Christina Cauterucci in Slate.  Recommendations: Marcia: The Rebellious Life of Mrs. Rosa Parks, by Jeanne Theoharis.June: Portrait of a Lady on Fire. Christina: “I Don’t Want to Be the Strong Female Lead,” by Brit Marling in the New York Times.  Nichole: Murder, She Wrote. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special bonus episode, Christina Cauterucci, Bryan Lowder, and Rumaan Alam are joined by John Paul Brammer of the Hola Papi column to offer some sex and relationship advice. They answer listener questions about asexuality and navigating intimacy, reconciling fantasies with reality, taking the first steps into queer dating, and reconsidering why you might not identify with a community you’re already a part of. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, June, Marcia, and Nichole discuss Alexis Coe’s George Washington biography You Never Forget Your First. Then, they dive into Taylor Swift and Jessica Simpson’s recent characterizations of how fame has shaped them. Finally, the panel talks about a string of recent studies and op-eds centered on women and alcoholism.In Slate Plus: Is ghosting sexist? Other items discussed on the show: “You Remember Jessica Simpson, Right? Wrong” by Lindsay Mannering in the New York Times. “Netflix’s Miss Americana Unveils a New Taylor Swift” by Sam Adams in Slate. “Alcohol Deaths Have Risen Sharply, Particularly Among Women” by Matt Richtel in the New York Times.“The Patriarchy of Alcoholics Anonymous” by Holly Whitaker in the New York Times.“Feminism Is Helping Women Recover From Substance Abuse” by Alexandra Ma in Vice. Recommendations: Nichole: Playing with Fire on Netflix.June: The Expanse on Amazon Prime.Christina: “Intro to Human Physiology” class on Coursera.Marcia: I Love

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, June, and Marcia take on Gwyneth Paltrow’s Netflix show The Goop Lab. Next, the panel discusses Donald Trump’s appearance at March for Life—the first time a sitting president attended the annual anti-abortion event. Finally, the panel dives into a 1,000-word job description for a “household manager/cook/nanny” posted by a single working mom in Menlo Park that went viral.In Slate Plus this week, is it sexist that the Washington Post suspended its reporter Felicia Sonmez for tweeting about the 2003 rape allegation against Kobe Bryant in the hours after his death?Other items discussed on the show:“The March for Life Was a March for Trump,” by Christina Cauterucci in Slate“What antiabortion advocates get wrong about the women who secured the right to vote,” by Reva Siegel and Stacie Taranto in the Washington Post “An Interview With the Woman Who Wrote the Viral 1,000-Word Job Listing for a ‘Household Manager/Cook/Nanny’,” by Ruth Graham in Slate“The Remembering Kobe

This month, Christina, Bryan, and Rumaan break down exclusively gay moments in film and television, exploring why they can feel so craven, and if there’s any way to get it right. Then they interview Richie Jackson about his new book Gay Like Me, a letter to his gay son about the importance of being gay. They discuss the significance of Harvey Fierstein, growing up gay, and why queer identities are so essential. Then we close it out with a usual update to the gay agenda, looking at good versions of exclusively gay moments.We’ve got a Valentine’s Day advice show coming up with JP Brammer of the Hola Papi advice column, so send your questions to outwardpodcast@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at (929) 266-4914. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, June, Marcia, and Nichole discuss the recent drama about whether Bernie Sanders told Elizabeth Warren that a woman can’t be president. Then, the panel adds to the chronic (but desired) over-coverage of Megxit. Finally, the panel discuss Women on Food, an anthology edited by Charlotte Druckman.  In Slate Plus: Is it sexist for a listener’s parents to say she spends too much time on her son’s hair each morning?RecommendationsJune: Michael Apted’s “Up” documentary series. The latest and final installment is 63 Up, in theaters now.Nichole: Darynda Jones’s Charley Davidson series. Marcia: Stephanie E. Jones-Rogers’ book They Were Her Property: White Women as Slave Owners in the American South.Christina: The Showtime series Work in Progress.This podcast was produced by Lindsey Kratochwill. Production assistance by Rachael Allen and Rosemary Belson.Send your comments and recommendations on what to cover to thewaves@slate.com.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy fo

On this week’s episode the Waves, Christina, June, Nichole, and Marcia kick off 2020 by answering listeners’ “is it sexist?” questions. The hosts tackle bathroom etiquette, male presidential candidates, the term “girly girl,” and much more.  In Slate Plus: Is it sexist to call someone a douchebag?Other items discussed on the show: The Big Necessity: The Unmentionable World of Human Waste and Why It Matters by Rose George RecommendationsNichole: Orange World and Other Stories by Karen RussellJune: Say Nothing: A True Story of Murder and Memory in Northern Ireland by Patrick Radden KeefeMiddle England by Jonathan CoeThe television show Derry Girls, streaming on NetflixMarcia: The streaming service Pluto TV, which includes everything from MTV Cribs to Gordon Ramsay’s Hell’s Kitchen.Christina: Slate’s recent cover story “Lockdown” on children’s responses to school shooting drills. Also available to listen to on Apple Podcasts. This podcast was produced by Sara Burningham. Production assistance by Rachael Allen an

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, June, Marcia, and Nichole reflect on The Morning Show, remember the ups and downs of feminist blogs that were popular in the early 2000s and ask whether open floor offices might be sexist.In Slate Plus: are Barack Obama's comments about women being better than men sexist? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This month, Christina, Bryan welcome Rumaan Alam as the official third host of Outward. First, June Thomas joins the team to discuss the new L Word reboot, how it compares to the original, ways it’s stepped past it, and if any of the characters will actually become unlikeable. Then the trio go through an extended segment of prides and provocations of the decade with Andy Bowen, a consultant on queer and economic social justice issues. They tackle marriage equality, PreP, lesbian bars, and the savvy ways the LGBTQ community have navigated governmental bureaucracy. Then we close it out with a usual update to the gay agenda.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, June, Marcia, and Nichole discuss Kamala Harris and her departure from the field of Democratic presidential hopefuls. Then, they talk about Frozen 2. Finally, the panel takes on Black Friday - the sales and the stores that are opting out.. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, June, Marcia, and Nichole discuss the newest season of The Crown, where Olivia Colman takes the throne as a middle-aged Queen Elizabeth II. Then, they break down a few sexist moments during the impeachment hearings. Finally, the panel dives into a recently published study on hookup culture that explores the relationship between casual sex on college campuses and race. In Slate Plus: Is it sexist to dismiss YA fiction as just for girls?Other items discussed on the show:“How the Man Behind ‘The Crown’ Made the Monarchy Relevant Again,” by Giles Harvey, The New York Times Magazine RecommendationsNichole: Farsáli Skintune Blur Perfecting Primer SerumJune: The podcast Poem Talk. (Stay tuned for June’s upcoming appearance on the podcast!) Christina: Slate columnist Rich Juzwiak’s Jezebel essay “The Strange, Sad Story of the Ken Doll’s Crotch.”Marcia: Erica Armstrong Dunbar’s latest book She Came to Slay: The Life and Times of Harriet Tubman.This podcast was produced b

This month, Christina and Bryan are joined again by writer and Slate advice columnist Rumaan Alam to talk about children. First, the team invites Slate executive editor Allison Benedikt to talk about the ways children learn about queerness and sexuality, what we can do to teach and be an example, and how kids often pick up this stuff without us. Then they interview clinical psychologist Dr. Laura Edwards-Leeper about a recent case in Texas involving a trans child, the best routes for handling pre-adolescent trans care, and how affirming a child’s gender identity can really only help. And, of course, we’ve got our usual rounds of gay agenda and prides and provocations.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, June, Marcia, and Nichole discuss former congresswoman Katie Hill’s resignation and revenge porn. Then, they break down the successes and failures of the new television show on female desire, Mrs. Fletcher. Finally, the panel is joined by Ronan Farrow to chat about his recent book, Catch and Kill, and the systemic sexism he highlighted in his intensive—and often dangerous—reporting on Harvey Weinstein. In Slate Plus: Was it sexist for Delta to edit out the lesbian sex scenes as well as the word “vagina” in Booksmart? Other items discussed on the show:Terminator: Dark Fate Is the Gayest Terminator Yet, by Christina Cauterucci RecommendationsJune: Mark Morris’s memoir Out Loud. Christina: The most recent Terminator movie, Terminator: Dark Fate. Marcia: The podcast That That Don’t Kill Me. Nichole: The band Durand Jones & the Indications. This podcast was produced by Sara Burningham. Production assistance by Rachael Allen and Rosemary Belson. Send your comments

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, Marcia, and June dive into the tension between love and politics in light of a recent piece on Democratic women married to MAGA-loving men. Then, they talk about the implications of framing abortion as “safe, legal, and rare,” as Tulsi Gabbard did in the most recent Democratic presidential debate. Finally, the panel considers the lonely social media “It Girl.” Are influencers’ “getting real” posts truly authentic? In Slate Plus: Was it sexist for Joe Biden to tell Elizabeth Warren at the most recent Democratic debate “I got you votes,” regarding her creation of the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau? Other items discussed on the show:The Politics of Planned Parenthood, by Christina Cauterucci Who Would I Be Without Instagram?, by Tavi GevinsonMeghan Markle’s recent interview with ITVThe Passion of Dan Choi, by Gabriel AranaRecommendationsJune: Jamie Barton’s Twitter and Instagram accounts. Christina: Tegan and Sara’s memoir High School and album, Hey, I’m Just

This month, Christina and Bryan are joined by writer drag performer Pretty Rik E. After talking about Ellen and Big Mouth during Pride and Provocations, they jump into CNN’s LGBTQ town hall where nine different candidates discussed the queer aspects of their platforms. Then they unwrap some toys, giving Mattel’s new Creatable World dolls a spin to see what it’s like to play with a gender-neutral doll, and how it fits into a child’s gender-learning experience.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode of The Waves, Christina, Marcia, and Nichole discuss Rowena Chiu’s essay about Harvey Weinstein, and what her voice brings to the conversation about sex, race and power. Next, the panelists tackle whether the right women are getting credit for making the impeachment inquiry happen. And lastly, a chat about watching an intimate show about loss and grieving on Facebook - I’m Sorry for Your Loss Season 2. In Slate Plus: Was Bob Woodward’s approach to interviewing Jodi Kantor and Meghan Twohey about She Said, #Metoo and Harvey Weinstein, sexist?Email your topic suggestions and responses to thewaves@slate.com or tweet @christinacauterucci,  @tnwhiskeywoman, @drmchatelain with your thoughts.  Recommendations: Nichole: Instagram account @thetinychefshowMarcia: Podcast Scam GoddessChristina: Instagram account shop.trashpalaceThis podcast was produced by Sara Burningham. Production assistance by Cleo Levin and Rosemary Belson.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, Marcia, and June discuss the Washington Post profile of Kamala Harris that focuses on her years at Howard University and what that tells us about the candidate, HBCUs, and American political life. Then they talk about Malcolm Gladwell’s new book, specifically the chapter on alcohol and sexual assault, and find a theory wanting a foundation. Finally, the panelists talk through what they loved, and what they less than loved about Hustlers. In Slate Plus: It may be seen by some as #harmlessfun, but is it sexist for men to walk around naked in homes they share with other people?RecommendationsJune: Maggie Terry, by Sarah Schulman Marcia: River of Fire, by Sister Helen PrejeanChristina: Succession on HBOThis podcast was produced by Sara Burningham. Production assistance by Cleo Levin and Rosemary Belson. Email your topic suggestions and responses to thewaves@slate.com or tweet @christinacauterucci, @drmchatelain, @junethomas with your thoughts.   Hosted on Acast. Se

This month, Christina, and Bryan, and are joined by writer Rumaan Alam. After Pride and Provocations they talk about the news about searching for the gay gene and whether the endeavor has any positive use. Then they discuss McKrae Game, the conversion therapist who recently came out as gay and the difficulties of feeling pity and pain about this news at the same time. Then they close it out with a usual round of the gay agenda. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode of the Waves, Christina, Marcia, Nichole, and June discuss the success of the SoulCycle boycott and ask why some boycotts bite more than others, and why this one is getting so much attention. Then, they talk about Showtime’s docuseries Couples Therapyand how it combines the armchair judgment of reality TV with serious and intimate revelations about gender, race, and relationships between a therapist and her patients. Finally, the panelists share their reads of Taffy Brodesser-Akner’s profile of Marianne Williamson for the New York Times Magazine. Is a New Age spiritual leader a good choice for a political leader?In Slate Plus: Moms Demand Action has been at the forefront of recent gun-safety victories, but is it sexist for “the moms” to be the ones who step up and demand change in the wake of mass shootings?Email your topic suggestions and responses to thewaves@slate.com or tweet @christinacauterucci,  @tnwhiskeywoman, @drmchatelain, @junethomas with your thoughts.  This podcast was pro

This week on the Waves, Christina, Nichole and Marcia discuss the “electablity” conversation around Elizabeth Warren, the CBS All Access show Why Women Kill, and intimacy coordinators.  In Slate Plus: Is it sexist that Maggie Haberman paid back her book advance and Glenn Thrush did not?  Podcast production by Danielle Hewitt. Production assistance provided by Cleo Levin. Email your topic suggestions and responses to thewaves@slate.com or tweet @christinacauterucci,  @tnwhiskeywoman, @drmchatelain with your thoughts.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.